So, what's the problem? Are there really guys out there that can't commit? He just got out of a long term relationship. Maybe he's just wanting to have fun with someone he feels comfortable around? He did tell me he loved me while we were having a beer the other night.
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He believes you are no more than ';friends with benefits';.
Look, the simple truth is that he gets away with what you allow him to. If he feels down, he can count on you to give him a little ';pick-me-up';. If he feels lonely, you provide him with company. If his confidence is shot, you help him pull himself back together...... Sound familiar? The biggest lie girls/women swallow is that guys need time to ';commit';. We either are committed to sleeping around or we are committed to the ';one';. And if you are not the ';one'; then.... the real question is: how much do you respect yourself?Relationship Help! Advice!?
He's comfy, but is it love? As his friend and for your own sanity ask him to seriously think about what saying 'I love you' means to him. There's so many levels of love and you certainly don't want to loose a good friend for something that just wont work out.
If he wanted to commit, he would. If commitment is what you want, why not find a guy who can give this to you? Why are you still attached to this man who wants nothing more than a good time? Don't worry about guys out there that can't commit. That has nothing to do with you and your desire for love and respect from a man.
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