Bad 3 some experience, need advice to help forget?

I had a three some with my boyfriend and my old roommate. From the first moment i saw him kiss her, i felt like my heart was broken. everybody continued fooling around, until at one point i started crying. now i keep having flashes of that moment. need some advice and stories to help me feel better. cant discuss this with my friends, please help.Bad 3 some experience, need advice to help forget?
It seems that the two of you were experimenting. Did you not kiss the girl and fool around with her also? Maybe you did not, but I kinda thought that may have been the whole idea behind it in the first place. It sounds as if you are not up to the whole ';sharing'; idea behind these risque' type experiences. You know now that it is not your thing. You should not hold it against him, but it is ok to tell him that you can not handle seeing him with someone else, and you would rather keep sex between the two of you in the future.Bad 3 some experience, need advice to help forget?
When it comes to any bad experience I think it's best to talk to the person you can trust most, if you don't have that, then discuss it with your parents, trust me, even if you don't feel like they would understand or would underestimate how much this bothers you, you might be wrong about that.


If you don't want to discuss this with your parents, then try to get yourself busy with other things, focus what you want to do or achieve on this day and not on what you want to do in the future, and don't think of the past or stick to it; you need to move on with your life; remember that it isn't alway night time. Try working out or playing whatever sport you enjoy, playing a video game, watch T.V., talk to someone you haven't stayed in touch for a while, do a hobby you haven't done for a while, go out for a walk or a jog or simply look at a distant on the balcony, etc.


If none of these work, then sit down in a quiet place and allow whatever tears you're holding in out, and I think that this could be the best way.
Honestly, your realtionship will never be the same. I would even be suprised if you make it. Trust is a huge thing in relationships, and even though the 3-some was an agreed upon event, you had no way of knowing how you would react.





I wish i had good advice for you, but I don;t
3somes ruin relationships ! ! ! ! you should have never went there. thats exactly why it ruins them- cuz u keep having flashbacks of the person u love doin somebody else- 3somes should happen btwn ppl who dont love each other and arent in relationships!





it was stupid of u to do this- now u gotta deal w/ it.
To funny. Bad 3-some experience.. LOL LOL
3somes never really work out well for people who love each. It is just two hard to see the person you love with another. My best advice is to move on. You will never forget those images of your boyfriend and that other girl. And trust me, when a guy really loves you, he does not want to see you with anyone else - not even another girl. Find a man that will love you for you and be totally satisfied you you. YOU are the only person he should need in that way!!!
just forget about and don't do it again!
just do ur bf more and remember that in stead of the 3 sum
You'll NEVER forget that experience girl!!





So take the time to heal your shattered, splintered heart and then move on.





And if anyone else in your life suggests a 3some, you know now how to respond.
I have never done that because I know it would kill me. Is your boyfriend understanding and compassionate about how you feel? Time is the only thing that can make you feel better. When you start thinking about it, immediately start thinking of something else. Maybe you can even have a ';go to'; thought. If you dwell on it, you will just be torturing yourself. Remember that mistakes happen to everyone. I have a few regrets myself. When I think of them I get sad, but that is such a waste of time.