( GIRLS HELP ME) why do girls always ask their friends for advice in a relationship?

A girl i was with did this a lot and i wish she would have talked to me about what was on her mind rather then go tell her friends because i feel like she is leaving me in the dark. i think its really immature and i believe her friends were a big part of why we didn't last. I am a good guy but if u don't tell me what im doing wrong i can't correct it.( GIRLS HELP ME) why do girls always ask their friends for advice in a relationship?
Im not a girl but i understand the question a little.








Well girls go to other girls because they think they will be able to get the easiest answer. They look for the easiest way to get over something and they think their friends will know all the answers they need.





Girls are impossible to keep happy every single day. But they are so easy to love every day too.





So my advice would be next time you get a gf that you really love i would make sure she knows to ask you everything or tell you everything you wanna know and if she's mad to tell you what you did wrong so you can fix it.





Hope this helped.( GIRLS HELP ME) why do girls always ask their friends for advice in a relationship?
It's an interpretational issue, really, and one of insecurity. Most women are uncomfortable discussing such stuff with their significant males, cause they do not speak the same language, and they know it. Plus, her friends are more comfortable to poll on relationship issues.


Realistically, most of us don't like to face up to relationship issues with the person in question, too confrontational for most of us. Too much like picking on someone, no matter that you might not see it that way. Try just asking, if you worry about such a thing. But don't get all hurt if you think the response is unfair.


A hint: communication is the best way for a couple to stay, and grow, together.
When I was married, I always talked to my girlfriends first. At the time I felt like they were a good sounding board. They would tell me if I was overreacting and they would help me form my argument into boy-language. Sorry, but guys generally don't understand a woman's perspective like another woman does. On the other hand, now that I'm divorced I wonder if you're with the right person, you don't have to worry whether or not you're overreacting and you don't have to take the time to formulate a good argument. Maybe the right person will listen and understand you.





But please understand that girls need to talk about their feelings about 100 times more than boys do. And feel grateful that you are not hearing all that complaining. You're not missing anything. She'll bring the important stuff to you.
I know when I'm with a guy it's really hard to open up at first.


I don't want to scare him off or sound like I always need help.


We just like the security of our friends, they are always there for us and know what we are going through.





All girls you will ever date will talks to their friends for advice over you, at first anyways.
sometimes girls just draw a blank in their mind and they dont know what to do at the moment so they ask their friend(s) what to do because they might have gone through something like it before.
most girls find it easier to talk to their girl friends better than their bf because we can relate to each other and know that we won't be judged


but i bet if u just talk to her and telll her you can tell me anything she will be open to talk

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