Monday, August 23, 2010

My ex boyfriend is a mormon - help advice?

i was seeing this guy for over 2 1/2 years off and on. we would really only have argumentative discussions about religion since i dont believe in God and he is LDS church member. i knew from the beginning he was Mormon, i thought it was kool - someone who has faith and a connection to God. but he never got over the fact that i dont necessarily believe in a God (maybe the idea of God) but wouldnt follow any organized religion. i was raised catholic then didn't believe in God.





it isn't such an issue for me, whatever i believe i would still want my children to be raised in the church - catholic, christian even LDS church. but we mainly broke up because he couldnt get past my lack of faith in God. we love each other very much, i even got him excommunicated from his church because we were having premarital sex. he isnt 100% dedicated to the church, but wants to go back. part of that being he was told not to see me anymore since we fall back into being together.





any help or advice?My ex boyfriend is a mormon - help advice?
If your ex is serious about his religion and wants to come back into the church then it's probably for the best if the two of you remain apart. I'm not saying this to be harsh, it's just he can not fully live his religion with a non-member. If he is seeking a marriage partner he will probably look for a Mormon girl to marry. This is because when Mormons marry, we marry for ';time and all eternity'; not just ';until death do you part';. This type of marriage can only take place when the couple (both being worthy church members) marry in the temple.





You also mentioned children. Mormons know that families have the opportunity to continue on as a family unit after this life. Couples who are married in the temple will have their children sealed to them forever. These blessing would not be available to him if he married a non-member.





Some of what I'm saying may seem strange to you, check out this website if you need additional info:





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If he really loved you then he would accept your opinon as it is.
you should believe in God. It doesnt mean you have to be in a religion or sect but realy believe that a God exist and is in love with all of us.


I cant blame you for your experiences might have taught you otherwise. But if you really love the man in your life, there's no better partner than those that believe and have fear in God.


Man of God respects women, loves his family and most likely the faithful one. There are of course exceptions to the rule.


Before closing your life to God, hear him first. Know what kind of a God he is.


I am praying that you will open your eyes and heart to the truth that all of us need God in our life, otherwise this will be an empty life. Meaningless and without hope.


God loves you, and you are his beloved.
First of all you had a BYfrind not a HUSBAND! This makes a considerable difference!!! I thought Mormons were conservative and not into the whole BOYfrind thing?? AND you dont believe in GOD??? Well WHY are you even sweatin' this???? You dont believe in God but you ....nevermind....you need more help than you can get here honey!...Yu have children and you dont believe in GOD??? You need serious help.......you need to think about THAT before you even worry about some dude!! YOU-HAVE-KIDS!! God-is-real!! Wake-up-NOW!!! Youre just being selfish if youre stuck on some MAN when you have kids to think about!! Im wasting my time here.....
Whats to help? You are on different paths and thats okay...just not in this case. This is how it is when religions have rules that TELL you who and who you cannot share your life with.
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