This guy is IFFY! HELP/ADVICE please.?

This guy....(I'm 22, he's 29)i'm kind of dating...is too sexual/physical, we've only been on two dates and it's just too much , too fast, and very awkward. He says he's just really affectionate....when I brought it to his attention. Does he just not respect me?! He continues to get really hot and bothered all over me, and makes it pretty obvious he wants to have sex with me each time we hangout. Something is definitely missing from this little relationship of ours.....like conversation! lol It's so sad, but it's true. Why do most of my dates/relationships with men always end up like this?! There's always a failure to relate/connect with guys that I date. It always evolves into something purely sexual early on and then there's usually some fights and drama in between, then we go our seperate ways. This is a pattern I have with men. I am not friends or in contact with any of my past ex's, because of this. Help! What is going on with this guy and myself? Thanks.This guy is IFFY! HELP/ADVICE please.?
This may not be the answer you want, but in all honesty you give up too much control. You can be the one to choose when your sexually intimate with someone and not let it be the other way around. Did you share with him your desires and what you were looking for once the relationship started? that always helps.





His sexual desires comes from the fact your a ';new object'; and he wants to enjoy it all he can...like they say when we were given a new toy as a child we played with it till we got bored or another one took it's place.





If you really like this guy share with him your feelings and if you want to get serious have him slow down and tell him you really want to get to know one another, if he is as serious as you are about wanting to communicate and learn about each other then you will, if it is purely sexual then you will find that out too...but hopefully you will find the right guy for you. Good luckThis guy is IFFY! HELP/ADVICE please.?
i suggest to end the pattern. u already know where its leading