I need help. advice, EMPATHY, just support, anything?

This is Daphne. I somehow got locked out of my old account. Thanks to all of the people who answered this question there. Im re posting it so i can get more opinions. Thank you,


Daphne





I have known this guy for 6 years and I want us to be more than friends. whenever i hear his voice, i begin to cry. i can barly stand life itself anymore. and i have to fake it everyday. and nobody has empathy. i just wish that the feeling of longing and the want that i have for him was mutual. i would do anything for him. i want him so badly... i cant even explain it. I pray for an answer, but i get nothing. I pray for the emptiness to be filled, nothing happens. i feel so empty and sad and horrible and incomplete and...all i want is to be loved. by him. my family is no longer enough. they don't support my hopes and dreams. they are horrible. i have noting left anymore. i just want him to love me. like an old fashioned romance. like twilight. that is all i want anymore, and i cant have it. lets face it, I'm ugly and nobody will ever want me. they always go for he prettier girl. the cookie-cutter girl. all i want is.. i just want somebody to love me. that's all i have been wanting for 6 years. that's it! and I DON'T GET IT! ONE SIMPLE THING THAT I WONT EVER HAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOBODY WILL GIVE IT TO ME. will somebody help me. say anything, just, please help.





Daphne





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My mother will not let me date and im afraid if i ask him im gonna get in a crapload of troube. and his parents wont let him date me since weve known each other for so long. and





(and thank you to everyone who answers *nicely*)





17 minutes agoI need help. advice, EMPATHY, just support, anything?
Sweetie, you don't ';need'; him to love you, you need to love yourself first. It's hard to understand these things when you're at your age, but it's not the end of the world if all those things don't happen now--it really isn't. Things will come to you in their own time, including falling in love, finding a good guy, realizing your hopes and dreams.





Take a deep breath, and calm down. You have a lot of years ahead of you--it's not a race. The first and FOREMOST that you need to achieve is loving and being confident in yourself. Some people take their whole lives realizing that. If you start working on that now, the rest are bonus.I need help. advice, EMPATHY, just support, anything?
First you need to love yourself before anyone can love you. You need to concentrate on getting confidence and then make him want you. If he doesn't after you charm him then he is not worth your time. Do not waste your time on someone who does not value you. 6 years is a long time. I know how it is when you like someone but realize there is more than just one guy/girl out there.