Ok so first of all i love. but lately for the past week or so she has been ';bipolar'; and just flipping out on me for nothing. she said shes aggervated(and that shes NOT on her period) i dont know whats wrong with her but its hurting me because she is mean. and bitchy most of the time.
advice? i wanna be with her but im not gonna let someone treat me like this and constantly hurt my emotions. Help / advice on relationship problems?
Tell her what you've said here: you love her, but her current behavior is hurting you. For her own sake and for everyone she has to interact with, including you, she needs to try and get a handle on this, especially if there is a more serious cause.Help / advice on relationship problems?
Has this girl actually been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder, or is that just the label you are assigning to her change in mood?
I strong suspect that you are not entirely blameless in this situation, it so rarely happens that way. So perhaps you can look at how you could have behaved differently, or reacted differently to something she has done or said.
Secondly, if she is strung out, give her some space, tell her you are going ot give her some space and explain that her actions are making you want some space too.
Communication is the key to sorting this issue out, that and a lack of ego.
Good luck!
She might really be bipolar has she seen a doctor about that yet?. I would say to let her know how this makes you feel and if she does not change that then break up with her and move on because its only going to hurt you and you deserve to be treated better then that. But talk with her about it first and give her some time if she dont change then move on.
How long has this been going on? Just recently or longer? If it's only recently, then sit down with her, and tell her that her mood is affecting you, then ask what's wrong and if there's anything you can do to help.
If it's longer, then maybe have the 'we need time apart' conversation. In my experience, chicks don't start treating you bad all of a sudden unless there's something else behind the scenes going on. Either they're sick of you or found someone else. Either way it needs to be 'nipped in the bud' so to speak.
Good on you for not laying down with this.
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