Saturday, August 21, 2010

Help/advice with this girl please?

Well i have been good friends with a girl for 3 years. Recently i have had feelings for her. She one night mentioned to me that her girlfriends thought that we are a couple. My friends alos said that if someone did not already know that we were friends then they would have thougth that we were dating.





I just have no diea if she likes me or sees me as a good friend. She has graduated from uni where i met her but she still comes to see me ever few weeks. She lives 30 mins away by train. She does make the effort to see me when i request her.





Last week I went to her place and her family looked after me well. Her mum made me a meal and asked em a few questions lol. I then played board games with her little sister.


Later on her dad at 1am dropped me home.





On the whole i know that she cares about me a lot as a friend but how can i tell her that i like her more than a friend when i am not sure what she thinks of me





Are there any hints i can drop or is there any way i can tell that she likes me?





btw lol she just sent me a message which started with ';Hey chicken'; wth lol. Do girls say that?! :SHelp/advice with this girl please?
For god's sake discuss it with her what is frightening you. She certainly likes to take it to the next level and is practically begging you. You are great together so kiss her now.Help/advice with this girl please?
What is frightening you. She certainly likes you and is practically begging you to take it to the next level. You are great together so discuss it with her and for god's sake kiss her now.
Just be blunt with her, no messing around.


Ask her straight, girls like confident men that are straight up, so what you got to lose really?


She probably feels the same way, but tbh you wont get girls making the first move half the time ;) lol.


'Hey chicken' yeah girls say that, pretty stupid i know lol
Talk to her about it and see what she has to say
Honesty is the best policy. Tell her how you feel but make it clear that you were scared to tell her because you don't want to damage your friendship. If she's the way she sounds to me, even if she doesn't like you that way she'll be very flattered and won't let it affect what you currently have.

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