My Best-friend was dumped unexpectedly by his long time GF due 2 pressure from her parent's side..(this is india %26amp; people are too conservative).now he is planning to kill the girl at her own house and then kill himself.. i cannot tell his parents.. he eill kill himself, even if i did.. i'am not sure if he will do this, but iv got doubts.i tried advising him a lot, but he is not listening. he is heavily depressed, %26amp; starts crying the moment i start talking to him.. how can i change his mindset??.. what should i do next?.. if i tell the girl about this her brothers may do something bad to that's for sure.... My friend wants to kill his girlfriend after she dumbed him... what can i advice him.. help please..?
Spend more time on listening on your friend. Try to advise him a lot. Let him know the consequences if he killed the girl. Let him know what will happen to him after he killed himself, for example, his families and friends will feel sad....
You may also have some activities with him. For example, hang out with friends. Try to have some fun time. Let him know the world is still beautiful and there are many things still waiting for him to complete.... My friend wants to kill his girlfriend after she dumbed him... what can i advice him.. help please..?
Oh my God! Well, first list him the posisitve results anf negaitive results for killing a person. Tell him that there is no need for killing someone like his girlfriend. Is not worth it.
If he wants to have revenge, telll him just to get another girl, who really loves him, and have a life. Then go to his ex and show her how your life improved after cutting off his relationship with her. His ex will get mad and angry because she expected him to be ';lost'; but he will not, then she will get pissed
knock him over his head....make sure you knock him unconscious....what's it going to hurt if he is going to kill himself anyways....heck even do it from behind and don't let him see you....tie him up when you have knocked him out...when he regains consciousness ask him what he remembers....if he remembers everything then obviously he hasn't forgotten how he feels....I would suggest trying this several times because you have nothing to lose...if you kill him you will be doing him a favor anyways if you can manage to just make him lose his memory you have spared two lives.....either way I would do something and try just about anything....because if you don't he won't have the rest of his life to see what he could have had
tell him to leave it alone tell his parents if he wants to take his life that's what he is going to have to face
tell the police!!! you will help him this way!
You have to tell someone, if he did kill her how would feel knowing you could have stopped it but did nothing.
If you really cannot tell his parents then tell yours, that way you will have at least told adults who are older or your religious teacher, priest, whatever you call him.
He will have experience in this type of thing.
Your friend needs help to cope with his feelings before he does something silly and ends his life %26amp; hers.
I'M NOT SURE OF YOU RELIGIOUS BACK ROUND BUT YOUR FRIEND NEEDS PRAYER, ALSO HE NEEDS TO SEE THAT THERE'S MORE OUT THERE FOR HIM CAUSE BY KILLING HER NOT ONLY DOES HE END HER LIFE BUT HE ALSO ENDS HIS, BECAUSE HE WILL GOT TO PRISON MAKE HIM ASK HIMSELF IS SHE REALLY WORTH HIS LIFE, AND EVEN SO IS HE GONNA LET HER CONTROL HIS FATE? CAUSE THAT'S WHATS SHE DOING TO HIM BY HIM LETTING WHAT SHE DID MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE SHE'S EVEN WORTH THE RISK. AND TRY AND FIND OUT WHAT THE REAL ROOT OF THE PROBLEM IS BECAUSE I'M SURE JUST HER LEAVING HIM DIDN'T TRIGGER THESE FEELINGS OF RAGE, HE NEEDS HELP BECAUSE IF IT'S NOT HER IT'LL BE THE NEXT ONE OR HIS BOSS OR WHOMEVER ELSE DISAPPOINTS HIM IN LIFE, HE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH DISAPPOINTMENT AND REJECTION BECAUSE THAT'S LIFE.
a cattle-prod and a hachete could work well.
u should tell this to the cops, ur friend is really nuts
Well tell him to be a man and get on with life, if she dumped him he should be happy cause she never truly loved him in the first place, hel find his true love for sure, lots of fish in the sea and his true love will never dump him, oh and why go through all the trouble of killing somone and making ur life go down the drain, try something more devious like let him tell her its a good thing she left him casue he found out he had AIDS and that she might be infected too and have a check up lol, i know its very mean but hey lighten up have some fun!
Please do tell the police as soon as possible.
dude you should go to the guards and tell her and her family for her own protection
tell the cops
tel his family!!! he probably won't do it if u tell, call his bluff, so to speak
Find a way to anonymously make sure her parents know and his parents know. Other than that... do not get involved unless you feel it is absolutely necessary to call the police if the man involved is walking out of his doorway armed and ready to murder. Is there such a thing as 911 yet to call in case of emergency yet in India?
Which is worse your fear of him going to jail or your fear of him dieing. If you tell someone it wont happen if you don't then she will die and so will he. That doesn't seem to be what you want. So tell someone, he may be in trouble but you will have saved 2 lives.
you can tell him to find another girl.
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