Is it possible to be attracted to someone that is not your type? please help i need advice?

there is this guy that i have developed a crush on but he is the total opposite of almost everything that attracts me to a guy. he is also my friend. do you think a relationship with him would end badly, because he is not my type. or should i go for it anyway and hope my friendship is strong enough for us to stay friends after everything. or should i forget about how i feel about him and just stay friends and don't mention it again. please help i need some advice.Is it possible to be attracted to someone that is not your type? please help i need advice?
You need friendship at the core of any great romantic relationship. People always have there types, but somehow keep failing to find someone that fits there type. There is a reason why that happens and it is because types are stupid. It can often prevent a person from meeting someone great. Often a person has a checklist and when you meet someone you immediately look to your list to find out if you should say yes, or no to going out with that person. Often when a person lets go of there types and lists they find themselves surprised and meeting someone really great. Take a chance and find out if something more exists. Would you want to go through life never knowing?Is it possible to be attracted to someone that is not your type? please help i need advice?
Yes, it happens to me all the time. But I think the key sentence there is ';he is also my friend';. You may have only developed these kind of feelings for him simply because he is your friend! You're around him often, you feel comfortable with him over other guys that you don't know...





I think you should probably stick to just being friends with him.
same thing happend to me.i ended up blocking him out cos i got too scared. Thing is he wasnt my usual type- same story as urs- but he liked me a bit too.


Just go for it. dont leave a what if.. and sit back and watch in hurt as some other girl walks by with him- when u know you two wouldve been gret 2gether
of course it's possible......no one that we date is ever going to be up to our standards or exactly what we are looking for. I give you that permission to just go for it girl! love will direct you to wear it wants you to end up. good luck and have fun!!
People that you will be attracted to throughout your life will not always be your type. Hopefully you are attracted to his personality, and thats the most important. I wish I knew your age but I would say ';go for it.'; Good Luck
yup...just like magnet----it attracts opposite poles...:-)


u know, in life, we tend to search for ideal things...perfect mates...or we set our own criteria...but the truth is...when he comes...when love stikes us....we will be able accept him no matter how imperfect he is...no matter how much he makes us cry...what will matter to u is ur love for him...