Need some help, advice.. what do u think about 3 year relationships?

Ok, so my b/f and I have been dating for 3 years. Our relationship hasent been great but not that bad either. He was my first b/f (1st in sex). Well the thing is that right now I dnt feel like I want 2 spend the rest of my life wit him, I am a teenager and I just want 2 have fun and party all the time and hang out wit whoever I feel like it. I have tried breaking up wit him more than a 1000 times but he just dsnt want 2 pay attention 2 me so we just change our conversation so I never end breaking up wit him. He lives far away from me, he dsnt have a job, stays in his house the whole day. We dnt see eachother anymore, we just talk on the phone.





I have mixed feelings towards 2 other guys there, but I dnt really want a b/f right now, I just feel bad fo my b/f cuz I feel like am cheating on him. He cries a lot so I feel bad for him.





So what do u think I should do wit this relationship? Everytime i try 2 break up wit him, he starts crying or something and I feel like if he does that 2 manipulate me since he knws I wont leave him like that...Need some help, advice.. what do u think about 3 year relationships?
This doesn't sound like a relationship to me. He sounds like a person who has no life and relies on you to keep him entertained a bit. My suggestion? BREAK UP WITH HIM. Tell him it's over, you'll need a few weeks by yourself, and go out and have fun. He lives away from you, you don't see him, you talk on the phone.... you need someone who is willing to make the effort to treat you well. If you want to just hang and party, try dating a lot of people before settling down again. If you're having problems envisioning yourself being with him in a few years, then he's probably not the one.Need some help, advice.. what do u think about 3 year relationships?
Definitely dump him you have to move on with your life but make sure you let people know you are single or you'll end up single the rest of you life.
You're boyfriend is pathetic. He's TELLING you that you can't break up with him? The next time he starts crying, just walk out. If you really don't want to be with him, you will just walk away. Don't worry about him getting hurt. You're already hurting him by staying with him when you don't want to be. Best thing to do is tell him it's over and walk out before he says anything.