Monday, August 23, 2010

My life As I Once Knew It Is Over? PLEASE help......advice?

My once fiance...I say that 'cause how could I marry a guy or even be with a guy like this. 6 Years ago I met him, swept me off my feet have never felt happy ever before then had 2 babies with him. It all strted when I was 7-8 months pregnant lets say..certain stuff on the computer if you could imagine kept popping up. I'm not happy will not leave my kids at home without me and I can't work because of this. My family dose'nt come over, don't really go out and I have had depression all my life. My life is Him GOOD and Bad. I feel so stuck I don't want to be here and I don't want to leave. I gave him chance after chance and the other day I told him it was his last and with no effort digging I found Stuff on the computer again. Guys my life feels like nothing he's perfeted almost in every way I'm not doing good and I feel like a coward help me Just please remember Im all alone in this this is my life falling to pieces I have not one friendMy life As I Once Knew It Is Over? PLEASE help......advice?
IDK, this is a hard one because you have no form of independance. People can tell you to get up and walk away but where are you going? What are you going to? You should co get help. See a therapist, get your old self back. Take baby steps until you are able to be on your own. Most of alol find a family member who can and truly wants to help youMy life As I Once Knew It Is Over? PLEASE help......advice?
you don't even have a friend in yourself.


you are your own worst enemy.





here is what you do. get a job. pay for day care. create a life of your own instead of living unhappily through him.


if you have to, call the dept of social services and they can help you find work and day care until you are on your feet. above all, quit whining and go out and do something for yourself and your kids!!!
please mention wht is the problem with u and ur fiancee??? its hard to help u without knowing the problem???
If you dont like the way things are, then move on. If you start going out, you can meet more people and spend more time with new people. It may seem like you are alone, but you have your kids! And thats special.


If this man makes you unhappy, then you shouldnt waste your time with him. It might seem like a big step, but when everything falls into place you will be so glad you moved on.
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