well ive had my heart taken smashed into a thousand pices b then given back...how can i help it heal? i really need to now b/c right now i feel like dying =( can anyone help?Omg i need help--advice?
Life changes its beauty all the time Sometimes it's a shade, sometimes life is sunlight. but u gotta learn that it isn't always gonna go ur way and certain things are meant be or happen. Remember live for the future, not for the past. It isn't always easy, but that's the whole point of life: overcoming those devestating things that stand in ur way of living a ';great life';. U've gotta accept the past and move on without it, because there are more things for u 2 pursue, learn and cherish. U can't dwell on this, it's not in ur hands anymor, but what u can do is learn from this experience. Like, they say life is a learning experience, but it can be the brutal thing. it isnt the end of the world, and take time to think abt wat u wanna do with ur life. it's not always fair, but as life goes on, it will bring more challenges that will make u reach ur breaking point. At the same time, every sorrow and devestation is followed by a joy and happiness. Look 4ward 2 those, more importantly learn from those experiences and accept the fact that misery, sorrow, suffering, and much more are all a part of life, and without it wont be able 2 realize ur potential and capabilities. Learn from the past and face the future because there mite b more. And one DAY THERE WILL BE THAT PERSON THAT U'LL COME 2 LOVE AND THEY'LL LUV U BAQ.Omg i need help--advice?
talk to more people. i'm going through the same thing. just be with friends as much as you can.
Sweetie, only TIME will make you feel better. I wish that there was a magic solution that I could tell you. Surround yourself with friends %26amp; family and try NOT thinking about your ex too much (IF that's possible)..
Good luck %26amp; warm hugs, Marilyn
it really dose take a lot of time but it dose get better
This will sound like a cop-out answer, but, it's the best one for me. Take a nap. Things tend to settle down after you put your brain and emotions on hold.
tqalk to me about it, i know how u feel.
Yahoo I.M.- Strathhavengirl
Let me take you our for dinner, take ur minds off things :)
well, sometimes WALLOWING will help, but it just makes you feel better psychologically (if i even spelled that right). If you wanna fell better while wallowing, then eat a gallon of ice cream and watch a funny movie. If you wanna fell worse, watch a sad movie.
If you just wanna get over him, then go out and do somethign to get you anger out (swim and kick the water REALLY hard!). If not, then talk to your best friend. make sure that you say something like 'i know that i have been talking about this lately, but...'; so she knows that you know that she is sick of hearing about this (if she is sick of hearing about it)
Hope you fell better!
talk to me!! i will cheer you up!! here my email address efrain78223@yahoo.com
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wallow. ya know just mope around eating everything out of the refrigerater!!!! lol...thats wha ti would do!!!
The feeling of being hurt, having your heart taken from you is very hard to forget. I had that situation and it was unreal. I lost a lot from that relationship, time with my kids, someone that cared for me deeply and wanted to be with me again in a sensual way will not be with me that way again. It hurts to open your heart, to expose your inner being to someone and just have them take it and crush it. All of this I know you already know. mine happened 2 years ago and time does heal. you have to learn to go on, to take this experience and learn from it. I know that I can never open myself up to another person for a very long time. but you have to forget the person who hurt you, you have to realize you are a better and stronger person then they are. It hurts, its a pain that burns in your stomach, but you will be OK and you will find that special person that will open his or her heart to you as you do to them. Learn from this and don't ever let your heart be open to someone who can't take and hold it next to theirs.
Time is the only way, it will pass sooner than you think, just don't return to the one that smashed it. Go out with YOUR friends and have fun, meet someone new, take it easy, all will be fine, it's not the last time it will happen but you learn each time. Good Luck and enjoy your life.
You just need to find something else to keep you busy and try not to think about it. The less you think of it the easier and faster your heart will heal. You need to find a new thing to make your heart throb.
Time, and realize that life goes on as cheesy as that sounds. And it was for the best because you will find someone better some day.
u dont need someone to be (with a bf)u should just let it heal i talk to alot of girls that have been broken hearted(i dont love them) all u need is a good talk with someone someone u know and can trust to not laugh at the way u feel. my friends trust me
yes. keep healthy, eat good food, exercise every day. Keeping well will help in your emotional healing.
Try to meditate - just find a warm comfortable place and practice relaxing your body and clearing your mind - it might help to focus on a candle 1st. (this is hard)
Next keep busy. Take part in as many activities as you can.
Talk to friends and family about how u are feeling.
Lastly remember that this feeling will not last forever.
(this all helped me)
First, dont think about death, then youll make all who love you miss u, even the one who hurt you. Second talk to that person b4 u try 2 get back with them, just so you can clear up all the messy details. holla back if you ned more info.@
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Something that helps me get away and escape is to read a REALLY good book. If you don't know where to start got to Amazon.com or some book site, (shop on yahoo I guess I should say here) and pick the best sellers list. You'd be surprised how you can stop thinking about your sorrows even for an hour. anything helps. And with my screen name, believe me, i know how to keep busy
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