Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Help advice on 27yr old friend acting like a child at colege what should i do?

I am a 33yr old that has just started college i am loving it i have to say! My worry is that my friend that enrolled at the same time is coursing trouble i am more worried that people are going to think that i am exactly the same as her! She is making life hell for a few people and some are going to complain to our Personal tutor. What my problem is i feel horrible for doing it behind her back but i know it has to be done as i sometimes cant cope with how she acts! I feel like i am a 33 yr old not going to college but going to school! She will constantly have petty rows with people and if i don't back her up or follow her when she is having a paddy she starts shouting her head off at me!!! Ihave thought sbout confronting her but she really isnt the sort of person to be confronted!! SHe is 27 but acts like a 10yr old, my daughter is 12 and she has even said she is being childish! If things dont change alot of people are going to walk out of the course and i really dont want that to happen last week i was even thinking of finishing due to her behaviour but have had alot of people telling me to stick at it!! I feel really two faced if i go behind her back! but know deap down something has to be done! It does feel like she acts like its school! She messes around in lessons always on her mobile texting copies off other peoples work i am woundering why is she there! What should i do!!?


She likes to be centre of attention! Doesnt like me talking to anyone only her and she has to know everything i have said to people! I knew her before we went to college but we was more drinking mates as we go out on weekend drinking other than that i didnt see her in between at college i am seeing a person i really dont like!!


How would you go about this if this was you!? What should i do? I dont want to drop out of the course but can see this happening if things dont change!!Help advice on 27yr old friend acting like a child at colege what should i do?
You can't change who she is. Who can, however, affect how she acts around you. You're going to have to tell her what you feel about her and her behavior (how it's inappropriate, etc), and tell her that it's affecting her image not only in front of strangers, but in front of her friends as well. If she doesn't comply or chooses to yell at you, well... you don't really have the obligation to take that from her, and you should simply distance yourself. A person like that really isn't much of a friend in the first place.Help advice on 27yr old friend acting like a child at colege what should i do?
Dude just tell her that you don't like the way she behaves...just tell her how you feel. If it doesn't change anything just don't be her friend. SHES 27!!!
she could have a disability of some sort, that make her act as young as she is acting, or tell her that she is behaving like a child, but be careful in case it is a disability.











if it is a disability, she can still attend college, and is still a human being with feelings, so please be careful
Tell her that you are getting tired of the drama. Tell her that you think that it would best if you and she were not as close. tell her that you are really serious about getting a good education, and that you feel distracted by all of the drama that has been going on. Tell her that you understand that she may be angry with you, but that you are adults now and this is the way you feel it has to be.
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