You need to have a good chat with your friend... and tell her you are feeling bad about not being a good friend while so much other stuff was going on with your life. It sounds like you may have been having a ';pity party'; for yourself and your friends don't feel like you have been supportive for them too...remember it is great to lean on your friends but you also need to have your shoulder available for them to lean on too! Best of luck... just talk and open up...most girls will be able to rebuild a friendship when they talk heart to heart.Im gonna keep asking until i get advice please help me :,,(?
well talk to your friend tell her how u feel. make sure u say sorry incase you did hurt her. do u think of only yourself? make sure u don't before doing this and dont get defensive just really look at yourself and ask that to yourself and answer honestly. if say yes then just check yourself and make it right,its not to late. if you say no tell her how u feel and u feel u just need a friend and u r sorry she feels that way but you dont want to lose her as a friend and tell her she means the world to you and you would like it if she talked to you and make sure you listen to her because if you get all defensive and dont listen you could mess up.
Best of luck.
Your friend is being selfish here...She should have had more understand for the situation you were in and had been there for you. Try sitting down and talking to her, tell her what you said here, if she feels she was ignored ask her why? Maybe something is happening to her and you could both be there for each other, to help each other out and not fight. It may just be you two are growing apart, it happens and is normal...But if you really like her and want to remain friends let her know. Also dont be afraid to say sorry if you feel there was something you should have done and hopefully she will return the favor.
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