Im a filipina,21. and a member of dating site and there man who always email me even i dont email him back...and he called me twice a week...at first I dont really want answering his call so i turn off my cellphone every time i feel he will be calling.One of my sister told me that I need to talk to him cause he seems a nice guy.. but I dont know what to tell him or what to talk about when he call me again, I dont want to be rude...what will be the best thing to do in this situation?Need some help/advice...pls?
If you're a member of a dating site why don't you wanna answer to the guy's calls? Aren't a member of that site in order to know and (who knows) to date people?
What's the use of being a member and not accepting calls, e.mails? So cancel your membership!Need some help/advice...pls?
Keep it simple, ask him not to call, as you are not interested.
Send it in an email if you're afraid to tell him on the phone.
If he gets angry or rude, just hang up and block any further contacts from him
take things slow and tell him your shy through email so he understands, then eventually you two can talk on the phone if you feel comfortable enough after a few weeks
Why won't you talk to him??
How did he get your phone number?
Look, meeting people online is fine as long as you understand that not everyone who seems like a nice person really is a nice person. You would be very foolish to give personal information to someone you met online. You don't know what kind of person they really are. All you know is what they are telling you.
If you are not encouraging this man and he is still contacting you then you need to be very careful. Don't listen to your sister. Report him to the dating site. If they are legitimate and responsible they will contact him and ask him to stop contacting you.
ignore him
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Need some help :) Advice?
I was chosen to do a project about Russia with this girl who is smooking hot, it's supposed to be done on the computer together and well I'm nervous as hell! How should I act? Help.Need some help :) Advice?
You should treat her as if she were anyone else. You should listen to her ideas, ask her opinion and try not to be nervous. Pretty girls get sick of people falling over themselves and being nervous. What they want is to be treated as if they are MORE than pretty girls. Don't worry about her opinion of you or about impressing her, just be yourself. That being said, make sure you shower, wear deodorant and brush your teeth; no one wants to sit with someone who stinks!Need some help :) Advice?
try this ... completely avoid conversation on any subject not related to ur project
trust me !
You should treat her as if she were anyone else. You should listen to her ideas, ask her opinion and try not to be nervous. Pretty girls get sick of people falling over themselves and being nervous. What they want is to be treated as if they are MORE than pretty girls. Don't worry about her opinion of you or about impressing her, just be yourself. That being said, make sure you shower, wear deodorant and brush your teeth; no one wants to sit with someone who stinks!Need some help :) Advice?
try this ... completely avoid conversation on any subject not related to ur project
trust me !
Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
I need a total confiendnce boost how ?
this week im meeting this guy i really like him but im rather shy .. i dont know what to say or do ....what should i wear ? what should i talk to him about .... i dont want him to think im retarded ...im totally freakin out ......Any advice??Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Well first off... you need to pick out an outfit that you feel comfortable in and very cute!! If you wear something that is not at ll comfortable then you will think about that the whole time instead of him. You need to find out where you are going before so you know what to wear...
Just be your self... Small talk is the best thing to talk about... like the diner... how you guys met.... and just tell him your likes and dislikes....That is a fun topic! Then you can figure out if you are compatible with him! and if you are nervious.... just think about how he feels he is going to be nervious too!! SO talk about that too!! that will get you off to a good start!!
Being shy will go away in time... I was very shy but now I don't stop talking....Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Girlfriend best advice JUST BE YOURSELF!!! I was chating to this guy on a dating site and we fell inlove. He calls me every day and we had alot in mind. Than he suggested that we meet and I totally freaked out. Oh what am I going to wear,willl he like what he sees and what are we going to talk about you know such things. But let me tell you something we finally met and I didn't go to the extreme to look presentable. I just wore jeans and a T-shirt lol. We sat at my house and I offered him something to drink and because we had alot in mind we talked asif we knewed each other before. I have a pool table at home and I suggested we play a game seeing that he also loves pool. Don't freak out hun best thing you can do is relax, be yourself and don't expect too much. Set your mind at ease and tell yourself that everything is going to work out just well. Be self confident and hey don't judge and think that he's going to think that you a retard. Be cool please but please Don't Freeze.
listen my dear just be your self, this might sound weird and odd, but go to your mirror and just tell your self your awesome, do that a few times before the date it might help. just were something nice, if your going to a place that's not dressy were jeans a a t-shirt, no need to stress over it. if you really don't know him ask him about his family, were he sees himself in 5 years, let him talk to you as well, let him ask you some questions. if this helps awesome if you have any questions feel free to ask....and good luck
well firstly just chill out as that will only make you even more nervous, have a glass of wine of a beer before you go but only to relax you, dont get drunk as this will make you look like a twat! just be yourself, ask hinm about his job and try and find ways you can relate to it and stories you can tell! also ask him about his hobbies and intrestes! once the cono has started it should flow! good luck xxx
This may sound slightly strange but it does work. if he had myspace or facebook or any of those social networking things go on it and see if hes put the type of music hes into , hobbies , tv , etc etc so you have a list of topics alrady in your head to talk about.
if he doesnt speak to friends who might know him or just take not of things e.g what car he drives
flatter him , no too much , but a little flattery goes a long way with guys.
ask him about himself , men will talk about themselves all day if they can!
its so easy to say something incredibly stupid toa guy you really like so make sure you really quickly think everything your going to say before you say it.
this depends where you are going but dont get overly dressed up %26amp; Definitley dont dress really obviously slutty.
good hair %26amp; make up is usually a real confidence booster , but again dont goover the top. eg. dont leave the house looking like a drag queen.
hope this helps you , you should be fine
Just try and be yourself, wear a big smile and everything will fall into place. Even when we're not confident facing the world with a smile and not being afraid to stand up straight and walk with pride will show others that we CAN and ARE willing to do our own thing. I'm sure that you'll wear something special and I hope that it all goes well for you.
Thank you, and good luck :)
Honeybee, if you really like this guy just be yourself, wear something attractive, not too sexy and not too goddy goddy, just wear something that will get his attention but will still pay attention to what you're saying. Be confident in yourself and everything will be fine, don't freak out, oh yeah and don't bring up any of your ex-bfs. Good Luck!!!
this is exactly whatr happened to me yesterday! what i did was tried to ignore how fit and lovely he was and just talked to him and acted towards him as i would my friends, and luckily i was with my friends so i just included him in our convosations. Once you feel more confident around him, you can start to sus out whther he likes you :)
hope this helped xxx
I had that prob with my bf because i met him online and meeting him in real life was very nerve racking.... try to be yourself, dress however you feel comfortable and waht u think u look good in cus if you feel like you look good that will boost your confidence! tell him your nervous i'm sure he will be too and it wont be long before your feeling comfortable together trust me!!
Well dont freak out i know its hard but with these things you just have to go with the flow because there is no right or wrong way of doing these things you just have to let it come to you naturally.. Where something that you would normally wear out with your mates something colourfull or sparkley
well for starters dont wear anything realy flashy in color..and dont wear anything sleazy or too revealing unless ur easy and want him to know that....just relax....and be urself...unless of course the real you does act retarded....lol....in that case i dont know what to tell ya....no...im kiddin...be urself...ask him questions u want to know about him...then ur talkin but yet ur lettin him do most the talkin...and just let the conversation take it from there....just be calm and try not to be panicky...BE URSELF!..hope ya have fun
Yeah I agree with the beer, it will surprise you how much more relaxed you can feel after having just one beer without impairing your judgement.
But besides that, I'm sure he's JUST as nervous as you. Chill out and let things go with the flow I'm sure you'll have a great time.
Just be yourself! If you come off as fake, wouldn't that be worse than what he thinks of the real you?
Wear your normal clothes. Just dress in an impressionable matter. Nice blue jeans, and a nice shirt. Don't dress like a skank and you'll be rewarded with a nice, caring guy.
Don't forget, if he's not all that you thought he was, it's ok.
1st what would you wear on the 4th,5th,date with him?Dress like that ,don't over due it.,just be you. 2nd,its okay to be nervous,he'll probably be nervous too.Then pretend its a old friend you haven't seen since 1st grade;take it slow.Everything will be fine.Good Luck!
all you have to do is be yourself wear some thing nice but not to revealing and once you guys meet up convo will stir up but just relax just be yourself cause at the end of the day thats all you can be go0d luck
Don't go. Tell him that you would but your to shy. (Clever 'eh?)
Be yourself you will be fine. Good luck
this week im meeting this guy i really like him but im rather shy .. i dont know what to say or do ....what should i wear ? what should i talk to him about .... i dont want him to think im retarded ...im totally freakin out ......Any advice??Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Well first off... you need to pick out an outfit that you feel comfortable in and very cute!! If you wear something that is not at ll comfortable then you will think about that the whole time instead of him. You need to find out where you are going before so you know what to wear...
Just be your self... Small talk is the best thing to talk about... like the diner... how you guys met.... and just tell him your likes and dislikes....That is a fun topic! Then you can figure out if you are compatible with him! and if you are nervious.... just think about how he feels he is going to be nervious too!! SO talk about that too!! that will get you off to a good start!!
Being shy will go away in time... I was very shy but now I don't stop talking....Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Girlfriend best advice JUST BE YOURSELF!!! I was chating to this guy on a dating site and we fell inlove. He calls me every day and we had alot in mind. Than he suggested that we meet and I totally freaked out. Oh what am I going to wear,willl he like what he sees and what are we going to talk about you know such things. But let me tell you something we finally met and I didn't go to the extreme to look presentable. I just wore jeans and a T-shirt lol. We sat at my house and I offered him something to drink and because we had alot in mind we talked asif we knewed each other before. I have a pool table at home and I suggested we play a game seeing that he also loves pool. Don't freak out hun best thing you can do is relax, be yourself and don't expect too much. Set your mind at ease and tell yourself that everything is going to work out just well. Be self confident and hey don't judge and think that he's going to think that you a retard. Be cool please but please Don't Freeze.
listen my dear just be your self, this might sound weird and odd, but go to your mirror and just tell your self your awesome, do that a few times before the date it might help. just were something nice, if your going to a place that's not dressy were jeans a a t-shirt, no need to stress over it. if you really don't know him ask him about his family, were he sees himself in 5 years, let him talk to you as well, let him ask you some questions. if this helps awesome if you have any questions feel free to ask....and good luck
well firstly just chill out as that will only make you even more nervous, have a glass of wine of a beer before you go but only to relax you, dont get drunk as this will make you look like a twat! just be yourself, ask hinm about his job and try and find ways you can relate to it and stories you can tell! also ask him about his hobbies and intrestes! once the cono has started it should flow! good luck xxx
This may sound slightly strange but it does work. if he had myspace or facebook or any of those social networking things go on it and see if hes put the type of music hes into , hobbies , tv , etc etc so you have a list of topics alrady in your head to talk about.
if he doesnt speak to friends who might know him or just take not of things e.g what car he drives
flatter him , no too much , but a little flattery goes a long way with guys.
ask him about himself , men will talk about themselves all day if they can!
its so easy to say something incredibly stupid toa guy you really like so make sure you really quickly think everything your going to say before you say it.
this depends where you are going but dont get overly dressed up %26amp; Definitley dont dress really obviously slutty.
good hair %26amp; make up is usually a real confidence booster , but again dont goover the top. eg. dont leave the house looking like a drag queen.
hope this helps you , you should be fine
Just try and be yourself, wear a big smile and everything will fall into place. Even when we're not confident facing the world with a smile and not being afraid to stand up straight and walk with pride will show others that we CAN and ARE willing to do our own thing. I'm sure that you'll wear something special and I hope that it all goes well for you.
Thank you, and good luck :)
Honeybee, if you really like this guy just be yourself, wear something attractive, not too sexy and not too goddy goddy, just wear something that will get his attention but will still pay attention to what you're saying. Be confident in yourself and everything will be fine, don't freak out, oh yeah and don't bring up any of your ex-bfs. Good Luck!!!
this is exactly whatr happened to me yesterday! what i did was tried to ignore how fit and lovely he was and just talked to him and acted towards him as i would my friends, and luckily i was with my friends so i just included him in our convosations. Once you feel more confident around him, you can start to sus out whther he likes you :)
hope this helped xxx
I had that prob with my bf because i met him online and meeting him in real life was very nerve racking.... try to be yourself, dress however you feel comfortable and waht u think u look good in cus if you feel like you look good that will boost your confidence! tell him your nervous i'm sure he will be too and it wont be long before your feeling comfortable together trust me!!
Well dont freak out i know its hard but with these things you just have to go with the flow because there is no right or wrong way of doing these things you just have to let it come to you naturally.. Where something that you would normally wear out with your mates something colourfull or sparkley
well for starters dont wear anything realy flashy in color..and dont wear anything sleazy or too revealing unless ur easy and want him to know that....just relax....and be urself...unless of course the real you does act retarded....lol....in that case i dont know what to tell ya....no...im kiddin...be urself...ask him questions u want to know about him...then ur talkin but yet ur lettin him do most the talkin...and just let the conversation take it from there....just be calm and try not to be panicky...BE URSELF!..hope ya have fun
Yeah I agree with the beer, it will surprise you how much more relaxed you can feel after having just one beer without impairing your judgement.
But besides that, I'm sure he's JUST as nervous as you. Chill out and let things go with the flow I'm sure you'll have a great time.
Just be yourself! If you come off as fake, wouldn't that be worse than what he thinks of the real you?
Wear your normal clothes. Just dress in an impressionable matter. Nice blue jeans, and a nice shirt. Don't dress like a skank and you'll be rewarded with a nice, caring guy.
Don't forget, if he's not all that you thought he was, it's ok.
1st what would you wear on the 4th,5th,date with him?Dress like that ,don't over due it.,just be you. 2nd,its okay to be nervous,he'll probably be nervous too.Then pretend its a old friend you haven't seen since 1st grade;take it slow.Everything will be fine.Good Luck!
all you have to do is be yourself wear some thing nice but not to revealing and once you guys meet up convo will stir up but just relax just be yourself cause at the end of the day thats all you can be go0d luck
Don't go. Tell him that you would but your to shy. (Clever 'eh?)
Be yourself you will be fine. Good luck
Homework help (not so hard), just asking for advice?
I need to do an essay about dolls and models. I can't barely think of any doll brands. If you know any of doll brands or models except for Barbie, Bratz and all these things please write it down. The brands also, need to be quite famous so I can easily find lots of research about it. :) ThanksHomework help (not so hard), just asking for advice?
Here are some antique dolls and there is a lot of history there that would be easy to find online.
Here is some examples of some dolls
Baby Bye Lo - Made by Grace S Putnam
Lovums Baby - Made by Effanbee
If you want to go more modern a good one is The American Girl or Cabbage Patch Dolls.
I hope this helps!Homework help (not so hard), just asking for advice?
Raggedy Ann and Raggedy Andy shoud be easy to reasearch, and those freaky ';kewpie dolls';-I may have spelled that wrong. Some people LOVE those things.
Hot wheels make dolls and cars.
also try Hannah Montana dolls. There selling like hot cakes on the market.
what about ';TRANSFORMERS';??
you can write a lot on these toys...
try cabbage patch kids or fisher price doll house and family set.
do action figures count?
Here are some antique dolls and there is a lot of history there that would be easy to find online.
Here is some examples of some dolls
Baby Bye Lo - Made by Grace S Putnam
Lovums Baby - Made by Effanbee
If you want to go more modern a good one is The American Girl or Cabbage Patch Dolls.
I hope this helps!Homework help (not so hard), just asking for advice?
Raggedy Ann and Raggedy Andy shoud be easy to reasearch, and those freaky ';kewpie dolls';-I may have spelled that wrong. Some people LOVE those things.
Hot wheels make dolls and cars.
also try Hannah Montana dolls. There selling like hot cakes on the market.
what about ';TRANSFORMERS';??
you can write a lot on these toys...
try cabbage patch kids or fisher price doll house and family set.
do action figures count?
IPod Touch help & advice!!!!!!!?
Ok. There is a refurbished iPod Touch 8G for $179 and there is a 16G for $219. I don't know which one to get because I don't know what I'm going to store on it yet. They are both from Apple. I don't know which one to get. I'd like advice from people who ONLY have ONE choice! NOTHING saying that you don't like either or you do like both, cause I can only get ONE. ONE choice and positive answer please! Thanks!IPod Touch help %26amp; advice!!!!!!!?
Go for 8GB the money you save with that you can buy many songs videos, and wonderful apps. You can also buy an earphone with mic. there are some amazing app that needs Mic.
In 8GB you get 10 hrs of video( 1700 songs or 1000 songs 2 movies 10 music videos, many apps/games and many photos) which is enough in my opinion. I have an 4GB iPhone, 8GB iPhone 3G and iPod video 80 GB but since I got an iPhone I never use the 80 GB iPod. There are so many stuff in the market you cant use all of them.
So I realized 8GB is enough unless you are music freak and wanna carry al the music with you all the time.
You also have app like Pandora radio and Joost so you can listen any song of your choice without downloading it and watch full length movies and new music videos for free on Joost.IPod Touch help %26amp; advice!!!!!!!?
I would go ahead and get the 16G for $219. You're saving money either way and you're only paying 40 more for double the G. It will be worth it and you'll have the extra memory just in case.
Go for 8GB the money you save with that you can buy many songs videos, and wonderful apps. You can also buy an earphone with mic. there are some amazing app that needs Mic.
In 8GB you get 10 hrs of video( 1700 songs or 1000 songs 2 movies 10 music videos, many apps/games and many photos) which is enough in my opinion. I have an 4GB iPhone, 8GB iPhone 3G and iPod video 80 GB but since I got an iPhone I never use the 80 GB iPod. There are so many stuff in the market you cant use all of them.
So I realized 8GB is enough unless you are music freak and wanna carry al the music with you all the time.
You also have app like Pandora radio and Joost so you can listen any song of your choice without downloading it and watch full length movies and new music videos for free on Joost.IPod Touch help %26amp; advice!!!!!!!?
I would go ahead and get the 16G for $219. You're saving money either way and you're only paying 40 more for double the G. It will be worth it and you'll have the extra memory just in case.
Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
I've been trying to have sex for a while but my boy friend hasn't been able to get it in. We've been dating for 13 months as of today. It just hurts to much. Any advise on how to make it hurt less and easier so i can actually enjoy it. I'm seeing him tomarrow (we're sort of long distance) and i'm ready to have him... if only it would hurt less. plz helpGirls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
Try some foreplay in order to open you a little. Another thing you can do is use a dildo on your own. Once the dildo can go in and out then he should be able to. You could also try lubrication.
Well good luck. Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
If it hurts b/c you are dry, try a lubricant. If it hurts b/c he is too big, just tell him to ';stick it in'; and it will feel better when you get going. If you are a virgin, it will hurt no matter what at first. If you are not, and he isn't too big and you aren't too dry- you may need to go to the doctor.
He should go VERY slow, but no matter what there is no way to get rid of the pain completely, just tell him to go slow, although after the first couple times it gets a lot better, trust me, its just that first time that is uncomfortable and painful
If it hurts it's probably because you tense up. If you tense up it's probably because you're nervous and not ready. But if you go through with it anyway just use some form of lubrication it'll help him go in smoother. Btw use a condom.
Try using a lube, maybe its just too dry in there! Practice in your off time using a super tampon, my friend told me if you use a super that sex won't hurt as much because your already sort of used to it. lol what do I know, I'm still a virgin!! Goodluck girl
you really need to relax and have alot of foreplay get to know him and and make sure he excites you and viseversa. You need to be comfortable with him and dont force it too much--it should just happen.
Lube is all you can do. It will get better with time.
nothing you can do about that unless you gt someone who is smaller
Some oil for lube and a lot more foreplay to relax you.
Try some foreplay in order to open you a little. Another thing you can do is use a dildo on your own. Once the dildo can go in and out then he should be able to. You could also try lubrication.
Well good luck. Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
If it hurts b/c you are dry, try a lubricant. If it hurts b/c he is too big, just tell him to ';stick it in'; and it will feel better when you get going. If you are a virgin, it will hurt no matter what at first. If you are not, and he isn't too big and you aren't too dry- you may need to go to the doctor.
He should go VERY slow, but no matter what there is no way to get rid of the pain completely, just tell him to go slow, although after the first couple times it gets a lot better, trust me, its just that first time that is uncomfortable and painful
If it hurts it's probably because you tense up. If you tense up it's probably because you're nervous and not ready. But if you go through with it anyway just use some form of lubrication it'll help him go in smoother. Btw use a condom.
Try using a lube, maybe its just too dry in there! Practice in your off time using a super tampon, my friend told me if you use a super that sex won't hurt as much because your already sort of used to it. lol what do I know, I'm still a virgin!! Goodluck girl
you really need to relax and have alot of foreplay get to know him and and make sure he excites you and viseversa. You need to be comfortable with him and dont force it too much--it should just happen.
Lube is all you can do. It will get better with time.
nothing you can do about that unless you gt someone who is smaller
Some oil for lube and a lot more foreplay to relax you.
I need help! ADVICE?
I'm now in 8th grade. My only best friend moved away and I don't have anyone to hang out with anymore. But I don't think that's part of the real problem. I don't mind being alone. I'm lagging behind in my studies cuz part of me just procrastinating and part of me can't concentrate. I have doubts about my own straightness and I'm really afraid. I used to be an A student. I also can't meet anyone's eyes. I NEED HELP!I need help! ADVICE?
i know it's difficult to sit and revise for 5 hours like some people do!
maybe you should do 2 hours each day and do clarify with your teachers whenever you have doubts!
try to open up to more people and even if you can't find another best friends, there would be good friends in times of need!
take care alright!I need help! ADVICE?
THERAPY.
it will pass don't worry.
i know it's difficult to sit and revise for 5 hours like some people do!
maybe you should do 2 hours each day and do clarify with your teachers whenever you have doubts!
try to open up to more people and even if you can't find another best friends, there would be good friends in times of need!
take care alright!I need help! ADVICE?
THERAPY.
it will pass don't worry.
I need help ? advice will be really helpful?
There is a realy cute guy in my math class who use to talk to me all the time. But after a while they move me from seats and now he does talk to me like he use to but he sees me b4 class and after and during lunch. But the only reason he ses me is b/c he tries to be around were i am but does he like me or just wanna be friends? should i ask him ? some advice will be niceI need help ? advice will be really helpful?
do you like him? if so, just talk to him. dont TELL him you like him, but flirt. if he likes you, he will let you know.
do you like him? if so, just talk to him. dont TELL him you like him, but flirt. if he likes you, he will let you know.
Ok i got a problem and i need some advice please help?
yeah i have been changing i have been acting really quit lately and i have been sad i am trying to change but its hard and im pushing people away and its starting to effect my girlfriend and its upsetting her and before i loose her i would like to go back to being myself please help me to find out how to be happierOk i got a problem and i need some advice please help?
you need counseling.Ok i got a problem and i need some advice please help?
maybe you are depressed?
has anything bad happened in your family?
just enjoy the fact that you have a girlfriend that cares for you and whats going on.......grab onto her and make sure that you keep her close
the more you hang and have fun with her it will get better
maybe also you should just talk to her maybe she can comfort you and you could be happier
hope this helped:)
you need counseling.Ok i got a problem and i need some advice please help?
maybe you are depressed?
has anything bad happened in your family?
just enjoy the fact that you have a girlfriend that cares for you and whats going on.......grab onto her and make sure that you keep her close
the more you hang and have fun with her it will get better
maybe also you should just talk to her maybe she can comfort you and you could be happier
hope this helped:)
What career would be good for me? Help me out w/ your advice!?
I'm 21. I'm at the most opportune time of my Life. I have my 2-year degree from a community college in General Ed. Now I need to know some broad areas or schools I should get into...
Here is what I really enjoy:
I really like funky modern type art, drawing it, engaging in it, doing funky scrapbook type fake magazine things.
I love piano- I like fun upbeat pop-sounding piano, not borin
I really really love being creative in so many different ways.
I think a Party Planner would be fun. Or something like a hair dresser/cosmetologist/makeup artist.
I kind of want to do something where I get to be active all day, moving around, NOT sitting stationary at a desk or office type job.,
I guess I really really like to be around creative souls-musically, artistically....I've always admired musicians and rock stars for being so out there
Mypersonality is:
friendly, kind of mild, but really intense. I feel things from the bottom of my heart-really hate stuff or really loveiWhat career would be good for me? Help me out w/ your advice!?
I think you'd be great as a personal business owner. You could open up an art cafe. That would allow you to be surrounded by modern art and you would constantly be around people who have similar interests. Owning the business may also allow you to plan parties if it became popular enough for people to want, say their birthday party or New Year's party at your shop. You could provide a place for indie bands to perform as well as pianist and such. It would put you in a position to be free and uninhibited with your decisions and allow you to choose how you want it to be. Money wise- you would probably not make a whole lot in the very beginning but once your place really got established- who knows?What career would be good for me? Help me out w/ your advice!?
fashion designer.
if ur into music and things like that u should look into a school called musicians institute www.mi.edu . they have a film school there in which u can apply ur creativity to and work with musicians. it may not be what u were looking for but its worth looking into.
fashion designer,radio host,interior design,or hairderesser/cosmotologist would be good
maybe a party planner would be good for you and if you like music you can play it or write but please do what you want
a highschool music or art teacher sounds good to me. you get to hang around students a few years younger than you, are on your feet, and you get to reach out to your students.
Party Planner because:
-you hire musicians [that takes care of the music part of you]
-you basically pick out the whole theme %26amp; help design it [the art part of you]
-you seem like a friendly person so you will be around people and this will keep you social.
-good pay and its SO fun!!! i want to become one =]no makeup
Here is what I really enjoy:
I really like funky modern type art, drawing it, engaging in it, doing funky scrapbook type fake magazine things.
I love piano- I like fun upbeat pop-sounding piano, not borin
I really really love being creative in so many different ways.
I think a Party Planner would be fun. Or something like a hair dresser/cosmetologist/makeup artist.
I kind of want to do something where I get to be active all day, moving around, NOT sitting stationary at a desk or office type job.,
I guess I really really like to be around creative souls-musically, artistically....I've always admired musicians and rock stars for being so out there
Mypersonality is:
friendly, kind of mild, but really intense. I feel things from the bottom of my heart-really hate stuff or really loveiWhat career would be good for me? Help me out w/ your advice!?
I think you'd be great as a personal business owner. You could open up an art cafe. That would allow you to be surrounded by modern art and you would constantly be around people who have similar interests. Owning the business may also allow you to plan parties if it became popular enough for people to want, say their birthday party or New Year's party at your shop. You could provide a place for indie bands to perform as well as pianist and such. It would put you in a position to be free and uninhibited with your decisions and allow you to choose how you want it to be. Money wise- you would probably not make a whole lot in the very beginning but once your place really got established- who knows?What career would be good for me? Help me out w/ your advice!?
fashion designer.
if ur into music and things like that u should look into a school called musicians institute www.mi.edu . they have a film school there in which u can apply ur creativity to and work with musicians. it may not be what u were looking for but its worth looking into.
fashion designer,radio host,interior design,or hairderesser/cosmotologist would be good
maybe a party planner would be good for you and if you like music you can play it or write but please do what you want
a highschool music or art teacher sounds good to me. you get to hang around students a few years younger than you, are on your feet, and you get to reach out to your students.
Party Planner because:
-you hire musicians [that takes care of the music part of you]
-you basically pick out the whole theme %26amp; help design it [the art part of you]
-you seem like a friendly person so you will be around people and this will keep you social.
-good pay and its SO fun!!! i want to become one =]
Fighting NYSDEC - Help/Advice?
Here is the question/problem we are faced with:
A material recovery facility had a permit to operate. The facility was leased to another company to run and operate it. The leased company violated NYSDEC regulations thus received violations. NYSDEC states the owner of the facility at fault - not the tenant who caused the violations. (Am I the only one scratching my head?)
We are trying to find politicians who are willing to help - Environmental Groups who can advise - etc.
Fighting NYSDEC - Help/Advice?
Hate to break it to you but the owner of the property is liable for the actions of his tenants. You may have a lease agreement that mandates the lessee is liable for all damages. If not, you can be in for a world of hurt.
Try to get the NYSDEC project manager to explain the rule that has been violated. It was probably referenced in the violation letter you got.
Read the regulation, hire an attorney that specializes in environmental fines, and sue the lessee for civil damages.
Review your lease and get your money from them.
Edit: Thinking more about this, if they leased the facility from you, your name should have been on their RCRA application. Ask for a copy of their application and see if you are listed. If not, you can try to imply that they submitted a fraudulent application.
I do not know if this will get you anything or not.
A material recovery facility had a permit to operate. The facility was leased to another company to run and operate it. The leased company violated NYSDEC regulations thus received violations. NYSDEC states the owner of the facility at fault - not the tenant who caused the violations. (Am I the only one scratching my head?)
We are trying to find politicians who are willing to help - Environmental Groups who can advise - etc.
Fighting NYSDEC - Help/Advice?
Hate to break it to you but the owner of the property is liable for the actions of his tenants. You may have a lease agreement that mandates the lessee is liable for all damages. If not, you can be in for a world of hurt.
Try to get the NYSDEC project manager to explain the rule that has been violated. It was probably referenced in the violation letter you got.
Read the regulation, hire an attorney that specializes in environmental fines, and sue the lessee for civil damages.
Review your lease and get your money from them.
Edit: Thinking more about this, if they leased the facility from you, your name should have been on their RCRA application. Ask for a copy of their application and see if you are listed. If not, you can try to imply that they submitted a fraudulent application.
I do not know if this will get you anything or not.
Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
I've been trying to have sex for a while but my boy friend hasn't been able to get it in. We've been dating for 13 months as of today. It just hurts to much. Any advise on how to make it hurt less and easier so i can actually enjoy it. I'm seeing him tomarrow (we're sort of long distance) and i'm ready to have him... if only it would hurt less. plz helpGirls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
Try some foreplay in order to open you a little. Another thing you can do is use a dildo on your own. Once the dildo can go in and out then he should be able to. You could also try lubrication.
Well good luck. Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
If it hurts b/c you are dry, try a lubricant. If it hurts b/c he is too big, just tell him to ';stick it in'; and it will feel better when you get going. If you are a virgin, it will hurt no matter what at first. If you are not, and he isn't too big and you aren't too dry- you may need to go to the doctor.
He should go VERY slow, but no matter what there is no way to get rid of the pain completely, just tell him to go slow, although after the first couple times it gets a lot better, trust me, its just that first time that is uncomfortable and painful
If it hurts it's probably because you tense up. If you tense up it's probably because you're nervous and not ready. But if you go through with it anyway just use some form of lubrication it'll help him go in smoother. Btw use a condom.
Try using a lube, maybe its just too dry in there! Practice in your off time using a super tampon, my friend told me if you use a super that sex won't hurt as much because your already sort of used to it. lol what do I know, I'm still a virgin!! Goodluck girl
you really need to relax and have alot of foreplay get to know him and and make sure he excites you and viseversa. You need to be comfortable with him and dont force it too much--it should just happen.
Lube is all you can do. It will get better with time.
nothing you can do about that unless you gt someone who is smaller
Some oil for lube and a lot more foreplay to relax you.
Try some foreplay in order to open you a little. Another thing you can do is use a dildo on your own. Once the dildo can go in and out then he should be able to. You could also try lubrication.
Well good luck. Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
If it hurts b/c you are dry, try a lubricant. If it hurts b/c he is too big, just tell him to ';stick it in'; and it will feel better when you get going. If you are a virgin, it will hurt no matter what at first. If you are not, and he isn't too big and you aren't too dry- you may need to go to the doctor.
He should go VERY slow, but no matter what there is no way to get rid of the pain completely, just tell him to go slow, although after the first couple times it gets a lot better, trust me, its just that first time that is uncomfortable and painful
If it hurts it's probably because you tense up. If you tense up it's probably because you're nervous and not ready. But if you go through with it anyway just use some form of lubrication it'll help him go in smoother. Btw use a condom.
Try using a lube, maybe its just too dry in there! Practice in your off time using a super tampon, my friend told me if you use a super that sex won't hurt as much because your already sort of used to it. lol what do I know, I'm still a virgin!! Goodluck girl
you really need to relax and have alot of foreplay get to know him and and make sure he excites you and viseversa. You need to be comfortable with him and dont force it too much--it should just happen.
Lube is all you can do. It will get better with time.
nothing you can do about that unless you gt someone who is smaller
Some oil for lube and a lot more foreplay to relax you.
Teen modeling help/advice?
Okay, so for quite a while now, Ive wanted to be a model. I'm 14 by the way. I found an agency[my friend recently was accepted], but in a town 2 hours away and my mom doesn't really know how to drive there and I really don't think she wants to try. Btu anyways, does anyone know how I can possibly achieve my dream? Oh, and I live in a smallish town of about like, 20,000. So yea..Teen modeling help/advice?
Well I'm 14 and want to be a model and I think that even though u live in a small town don't give up on your dreams , maybe see if you can catch a ride with your friend , and your parents could take turns carpooling.
Well I'm 14 and want to be a model and I think that even though u live in a small town don't give up on your dreams , maybe see if you can catch a ride with your friend , and your parents could take turns carpooling.
Acoustic guitar help..advice?
Okay, so heres the deal.
I sing.
I mainly cover acoustic stuff.
Like nevershoutnever!, The scene aesthetic, and jack johnson.
And I want to learn to play guitar on some of the songs..
But i'm not very good.
I want to be able to play for she's got style by nevershoutnever first, because that's the song I can sing best.
Any advice on how I can play it? It seems very simple.
Thanks guys. :)Acoustic guitar help..advice?
Guitar is not a simple instrument, it takes time and time to become good. I know ,i play. I play electric tho, which is actually easier. But anyway. To learn the song figure out how to play tabs. You can google it or go to about . com they should have an article somewhere about reading tabs. Then with the knowledge you learn there. Search for tabs to the songs on google. If you are a beginner i also suggest you take some lessons and learn your musical theory, that way it will in prove your skills. And remember:Practice,Practice,PracticeAcoustic guitar help..advice?
Learn to play using guitar tabs and chords. Google both and you can find tabs and chords plus lyrics for most any song. It is not that hard to play. but you do need a certain amount of patience and perseverance.
I sing.
I mainly cover acoustic stuff.
Like nevershoutnever!, The scene aesthetic, and jack johnson.
And I want to learn to play guitar on some of the songs..
But i'm not very good.
I want to be able to play for she's got style by nevershoutnever first, because that's the song I can sing best.
Any advice on how I can play it? It seems very simple.
Thanks guys. :)Acoustic guitar help..advice?
Guitar is not a simple instrument, it takes time and time to become good. I know ,i play. I play electric tho, which is actually easier. But anyway. To learn the song figure out how to play tabs. You can google it or go to about . com they should have an article somewhere about reading tabs. Then with the knowledge you learn there. Search for tabs to the songs on google. If you are a beginner i also suggest you take some lessons and learn your musical theory, that way it will in prove your skills. And remember:Practice,Practice,PracticeAcoustic guitar help..advice?
Learn to play using guitar tabs and chords. Google both and you can find tabs and chords plus lyrics for most any song. It is not that hard to play. but you do need a certain amount of patience and perseverance.
Careers advice. Please help me.......?
I am really clueless at the moment about what I want to do.
I am in my last few years at school and I think I need to decide a path. I really want to go to university, but there probably isn't any point unless i am aiming for a certain career.
So my question is. What are some good careers out there?
Do you have one that you enjoy?Careers advice. Please help me.......?
What subject are you good at? Do you like writing? Are you a people person? You might consider going into Public Relations. There's a variety of positions available for that and if you're going on to higher education, you could major in communications. Basically people in PR help construct positive images of their clients/organizations in the media. You write copy, press releases, arrange photo-ops, hang out and schmooze with high profile people and if you're into art you could even do the graphics for brochures.
I am in my last few years at school and I think I need to decide a path. I really want to go to university, but there probably isn't any point unless i am aiming for a certain career.
So my question is. What are some good careers out there?
Do you have one that you enjoy?Careers advice. Please help me.......?
What subject are you good at? Do you like writing? Are you a people person? You might consider going into Public Relations. There's a variety of positions available for that and if you're going on to higher education, you could major in communications. Basically people in PR help construct positive images of their clients/organizations in the media. You write copy, press releases, arrange photo-ops, hang out and schmooze with high profile people and if you're into art you could even do the graphics for brochures.
Kissing Advice....Need Help...?
I need some advice about kissing... My potential bf is experienced, and I'm NOT... I've went out with him before and I really like him... But the first time we went out, I had my first kiss... And he was in control a lot... I had no idea what to do... But, we are talking again and eventually we are planning to go out... I need some kissing advice... Ways to keep him coming back... Thanks!Kissing Advice....Need Help...?
Believe it or not, kissing comes naturally. You get the hang of it once you are attracted to someone. If you are with the right person, it doesn't even matter at first because you will be feeling so great anyway. Sure you can practice on a pillow, but until your lips touch his it won't feel the same. If you two are meant to be everything will honestly just fall into place hon. So relax and good luck!Kissing Advice....Need Help...?
i like to nibble on their lower lip.or softly lick it with my tongue. it drives my boyfriend wild, he says my kisses make his mouth water.
dont worry, its not up to the girl to be good.. ;)
go with the floww :)no makeup
Believe it or not, kissing comes naturally. You get the hang of it once you are attracted to someone. If you are with the right person, it doesn't even matter at first because you will be feeling so great anyway. Sure you can practice on a pillow, but until your lips touch his it won't feel the same. If you two are meant to be everything will honestly just fall into place hon. So relax and good luck!Kissing Advice....Need Help...?
i like to nibble on their lower lip.or softly lick it with my tongue. it drives my boyfriend wild, he says my kisses make his mouth water.
dont worry, its not up to the girl to be good.. ;)
go with the floww :)
Some help with guy advice please?
So lets say theres a guy that you really like, and you're pretty sure that he likes you too, but he has a gf (for now). how do i go about asking him for his number, would it be weird for me to get his number from one of my friends and just randomly txt him? or should i ask him for it?Some help with guy advice please?
Yes it will be weird so u have to ask him urself its better....
Yes it will be weird so u have to ask him urself its better....
Christian advice, please help?
I am a Christian and I know that I'm saved, but I feel a lot of guilt for my sins and everything else that I do. I haven't live that bad of a life, but I feel really dirty. Even when I ask for forgiveness, I don't really feel relief. Any advice?Christian advice, please help?
its satan trying to worry you.
Jesus paid for you sins
you are free.
You are a child of the MOST HIGH GOD
you have royal blood in your veins.
Your real Dad is the King of kings
dont let the devil steel your joy
May Yeshua ( Jesus ) bless you dear oneChristian advice, please help?
Pray for repentance. What I mean is that just asking for forgiveness although it's the right direction, you need to be diligent about it, and pray for repentance, and a contrite heart. If you are diligent, and continually keep your eyes on Jesus, you will feel forgiven, because God loves a contrite heart. I feel most loved by God, and at peace with God when I deeply regret sins, and the Holy Spirit convicts me of sins. If you just feel bad, and just half heartedly ask for forgiveness you are not truly repenting. I can't make a judgement on that, I'm just basing it on my own experience. I hope this makes sense. There is much more too it.
Jesus is coming soon, so be careful what you read, watch, say, hear, and do. Pay attention to what happens in Isreal and the countries surrounding it, but try not to get caught up in the things of the world, and worldy lusts. If you love your life, you will lose your soul.
Read the Bible with a fresh pair of eyes, and hear what it says with a fresh pair of ears like a child hearing it for the first time. Ask yourself, do I really believe this? I think you will be blessed if you do.
forgive me for saying it but the reason you feel that way is because you don't know how to forgive. it is so important to forgive. you say you believe in christ but if i asked you what he died for , you will quickly say for our sins. if that is the case then you are saying that he died for nothing or you are saying that your sins are too big for him to have saved you from. either way is not true. it is that attack of the devil to make you feel that you are not really saved and washed clean. trust that you are and don't focus on your shortcomings. you are not alone
The devil loves to make Christians feel shame and guilt about their sins. But you need to know this once you ask the Lord to forgive you for holding anything against anyone else, then forgive yourself too. Forgiveness is not an emotion you do not feel sorry. But it is an action. God forgives you and forgets, so if you were to ask Him about it. He would not know what you are talking about.
Just thank the Lord and praise Jesus for paying for your sins. You are free!! :)
I John 1:9, keep repeating it. God cannot lie, so if He says we are forgiven, we are. The problem is us believing this without ';doing'; something. We feel like we have fix something or whatever to really be forgiven, if at all.
The truth is, confess to God whatever is holding you back and take it by faith that He has forgiven you, so now you must forgive yourself.
Condemnation comes from the enemy, conviction is what the Holy Spirit does to call us to repentance.
So, if you still feel condemed for sin, its not from God, Satan is trying to keep you bound to that thing. Once you confess (convictions role) and turn away from that thing, you should ';feel'; free. I say feel this way because your and my freedom and cleansing etc. is not based on our feelings, its based on what Christ did for us.
Let that load be lifted and be free again! Read I Peter 5:7 (one of my favorite scriptures).
There are the ABC's to repentence that has been discovered.
Abandon
Be sorry
Confess
Don't do it again
Now I don't know what branch of Christianity you fall into, but mine is the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The atonement (http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?index=鈥?/a> is taught in a very sacred manner, and a real way to acheive forgiveness. I also suggest you read Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball.
Simple, I've felt peace with myself because of this Gospel, and I know God has forgiven me.
mormon.org
When you feel that way, start singing songs of praise and worship (in your mind if not an appropriate place and time to sing).
To God Be The Glory is one I sing a lot.
Also, Amazing Grace, How Great Thou Art, Great is Thy Faithfulness
The devil is accusing you. Resist him and he will flee from you.
Take every thought captive.
Also, read 1 John 1:9
Thats because god doesn't exist
you need to be able forgive yourself and not think that something else is going to do it for you
you need to find the strength within yourself to say ';i made a mistake'; and be able to forgive yourself
If Jesus says that you are forgiven, why do you doubt? This is acting against our Lord. Do not go by your feelings, they will always confuse you. Accept in Faith and the rest He will do for you.
Do not be under the yoke of 'guilt'.
';Guilt is never a rational thing; it distorts all the faculties of the human mind, it perverts them, it leaves a man no longer in the free use of his reason, it puts him into confusion.'; Edmund Burke
Jesus has set you free, of all this. Accept this fact, do not go by your feelings. He will take care of the rest. :-)
Are you repeating the same sin or sins over and over? Truly repent and stop your willful sinning , I say willing because I am sure that you know what I am talking about, and God will begin to fellowship with you again. The Holy Spirit is telling you what is greiving Him ,just listen.
Realize that ALL saved believers are still sinners.
And don't allow yourself to be under condemnation. Jesus ALREADY paid for ALL SINS when He died on the cross.
Jesus forgives ALL SINS past, present, and future, when you believe in Jesus alone for salvation. That simple!
Salvation is a FREE GIFT that happens in a split second when you believe in Jesus alone to save you! It is impossible to lose or ';leave'; salvation (John 6:39-40, 1 John 5:13).
The truth about Jesus is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to eternal hell, is by believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died for our sins on the cross as FULL PAYMENT for all our sins, and then Jesus rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe this and you will be in heaven, no matter what!
God forgives all things. God's forgiveness is easy. Forgiving YOURSELF is much harder. Take refuge in the fact that God has already forgotten your sins, and learn to forget them yourself.
Do not worry I feel the same way after I ask for forgiveness. It is hard for you to forget, but soon as you ask for forgiveness God erases all records of the things you have done wrong!
It is very easy to ask for forgiveness... However true repentance has taken place when you commit not to commit that sin again.
Every Christian feels that way sometimes, there is no need to feel guilty. God loves us no matter what we do, that should be your relief. :)
Yeah, drop the religion and you'll drop the unnecessary fear it creates.
That should be incentive enough to ditch the BS religion when you feel bad for no reason.
Sometimes its fun to feel dirty.
Repentance is one of the first principles of the gospel and is essential to our temporal and eternal happiness. It is much more than just acknowledging wrongdoings. It is a change of mind and heart that gives us a fresh view about God, about ourselves, and about the world. It includes turning away from sin and turning to God for forgiveness. It is motivated by love for God and the sincere desire to obey His commandments.
Feel Godly Sorrow
';For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin.'; (Psalms 38:18)
The first step of repentance is to recognize that you've committed a sin against God's commandments.
Feel true sorrow for what you've done and for disobeying Heavenly Father.
Feel sorrow for any pain you may have caused toward other people.
Confess to God
';By this ye may know if a man repenteth of his sins鈥攂ehold, he will confess them and forsake them.'; (D%26amp;C 58:43)
Pray to Heavenly Father and be honest with him.
Tell him of your sin(s).
If necessary confess your sins to your local LDS bishop.
Ask for Forgiveness
';And it came to pass that I did frankly forgive them all that they had done, and I did exhort them that they would pray unto the Lord their God for forgiveness.'; (1 Nephi 7:21)
Pray to God for his forgiveness.
Forgive others who have hurt you.
Forgive yourself and know that God loves you, even though you've sinned.
Rectify Problems Caused by the Sin(s)
';And if it be stolen from him, he shall make restitution unto the owner thereof.'; (Exodus 22:12)
Make restitution by fixing any problems caused by your sin.
Problems caused by sin include physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual damage.
If you can't rectify the problem sincerely ask forgiveness of those wronged and try to find another way to show your change of heart.
Forsake Sin
';He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.'; (Proverbs 28:13)
Make a promise to yourself and to God that you will never repeat the sin.
Recommit yourself to obeying God's commandments.
Continue to repent if you sin again.
Receive Forgiveness
';Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.'; (D%26amp;C 58:42)
The Lord will forgive you when you truly repent with a sincere heart.
Allow his forgiveness to come upon you.
When you feel at peace with yourself you can know you are forgiven.
Don't hold onto your sin and the sorrow you've felt. Let it go by truly forgiving yourself, just as the Lord has forgiven you.
I really hope this has helped you!
its satan trying to worry you.
Jesus paid for you sins
you are free.
You are a child of the MOST HIGH GOD
you have royal blood in your veins.
Your real Dad is the King of kings
dont let the devil steel your joy
May Yeshua ( Jesus ) bless you dear oneChristian advice, please help?
Pray for repentance. What I mean is that just asking for forgiveness although it's the right direction, you need to be diligent about it, and pray for repentance, and a contrite heart. If you are diligent, and continually keep your eyes on Jesus, you will feel forgiven, because God loves a contrite heart. I feel most loved by God, and at peace with God when I deeply regret sins, and the Holy Spirit convicts me of sins. If you just feel bad, and just half heartedly ask for forgiveness you are not truly repenting. I can't make a judgement on that, I'm just basing it on my own experience. I hope this makes sense. There is much more too it.
Jesus is coming soon, so be careful what you read, watch, say, hear, and do. Pay attention to what happens in Isreal and the countries surrounding it, but try not to get caught up in the things of the world, and worldy lusts. If you love your life, you will lose your soul.
Read the Bible with a fresh pair of eyes, and hear what it says with a fresh pair of ears like a child hearing it for the first time. Ask yourself, do I really believe this? I think you will be blessed if you do.
forgive me for saying it but the reason you feel that way is because you don't know how to forgive. it is so important to forgive. you say you believe in christ but if i asked you what he died for , you will quickly say for our sins. if that is the case then you are saying that he died for nothing or you are saying that your sins are too big for him to have saved you from. either way is not true. it is that attack of the devil to make you feel that you are not really saved and washed clean. trust that you are and don't focus on your shortcomings. you are not alone
The devil loves to make Christians feel shame and guilt about their sins. But you need to know this once you ask the Lord to forgive you for holding anything against anyone else, then forgive yourself too. Forgiveness is not an emotion you do not feel sorry. But it is an action. God forgives you and forgets, so if you were to ask Him about it. He would not know what you are talking about.
Just thank the Lord and praise Jesus for paying for your sins. You are free!! :)
I John 1:9, keep repeating it. God cannot lie, so if He says we are forgiven, we are. The problem is us believing this without ';doing'; something. We feel like we have fix something or whatever to really be forgiven, if at all.
The truth is, confess to God whatever is holding you back and take it by faith that He has forgiven you, so now you must forgive yourself.
Condemnation comes from the enemy, conviction is what the Holy Spirit does to call us to repentance.
So, if you still feel condemed for sin, its not from God, Satan is trying to keep you bound to that thing. Once you confess (convictions role) and turn away from that thing, you should ';feel'; free. I say feel this way because your and my freedom and cleansing etc. is not based on our feelings, its based on what Christ did for us.
Let that load be lifted and be free again! Read I Peter 5:7 (one of my favorite scriptures).
There are the ABC's to repentence that has been discovered.
Abandon
Be sorry
Confess
Don't do it again
Now I don't know what branch of Christianity you fall into, but mine is the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The atonement (http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?index=鈥?/a> is taught in a very sacred manner, and a real way to acheive forgiveness. I also suggest you read Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball.
Simple, I've felt peace with myself because of this Gospel, and I know God has forgiven me.
mormon.org
When you feel that way, start singing songs of praise and worship (in your mind if not an appropriate place and time to sing).
To God Be The Glory is one I sing a lot.
Also, Amazing Grace, How Great Thou Art, Great is Thy Faithfulness
The devil is accusing you. Resist him and he will flee from you.
Take every thought captive.
Also, read 1 John 1:9
Thats because god doesn't exist
you need to be able forgive yourself and not think that something else is going to do it for you
you need to find the strength within yourself to say ';i made a mistake'; and be able to forgive yourself
If Jesus says that you are forgiven, why do you doubt? This is acting against our Lord. Do not go by your feelings, they will always confuse you. Accept in Faith and the rest He will do for you.
Do not be under the yoke of 'guilt'.
';Guilt is never a rational thing; it distorts all the faculties of the human mind, it perverts them, it leaves a man no longer in the free use of his reason, it puts him into confusion.'; Edmund Burke
Jesus has set you free, of all this. Accept this fact, do not go by your feelings. He will take care of the rest. :-)
Are you repeating the same sin or sins over and over? Truly repent and stop your willful sinning , I say willing because I am sure that you know what I am talking about, and God will begin to fellowship with you again. The Holy Spirit is telling you what is greiving Him ,just listen.
Realize that ALL saved believers are still sinners.
And don't allow yourself to be under condemnation. Jesus ALREADY paid for ALL SINS when He died on the cross.
Jesus forgives ALL SINS past, present, and future, when you believe in Jesus alone for salvation. That simple!
Salvation is a FREE GIFT that happens in a split second when you believe in Jesus alone to save you! It is impossible to lose or ';leave'; salvation (John 6:39-40, 1 John 5:13).
The truth about Jesus is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to eternal hell, is by believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died for our sins on the cross as FULL PAYMENT for all our sins, and then Jesus rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe this and you will be in heaven, no matter what!
God forgives all things. God's forgiveness is easy. Forgiving YOURSELF is much harder. Take refuge in the fact that God has already forgotten your sins, and learn to forget them yourself.
Do not worry I feel the same way after I ask for forgiveness. It is hard for you to forget, but soon as you ask for forgiveness God erases all records of the things you have done wrong!
It is very easy to ask for forgiveness... However true repentance has taken place when you commit not to commit that sin again.
Every Christian feels that way sometimes, there is no need to feel guilty. God loves us no matter what we do, that should be your relief. :)
Yeah, drop the religion and you'll drop the unnecessary fear it creates.
That should be incentive enough to ditch the BS religion when you feel bad for no reason.
Sometimes its fun to feel dirty.
Repentance is one of the first principles of the gospel and is essential to our temporal and eternal happiness. It is much more than just acknowledging wrongdoings. It is a change of mind and heart that gives us a fresh view about God, about ourselves, and about the world. It includes turning away from sin and turning to God for forgiveness. It is motivated by love for God and the sincere desire to obey His commandments.
Feel Godly Sorrow
';For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin.'; (Psalms 38:18)
The first step of repentance is to recognize that you've committed a sin against God's commandments.
Feel true sorrow for what you've done and for disobeying Heavenly Father.
Feel sorrow for any pain you may have caused toward other people.
Confess to God
';By this ye may know if a man repenteth of his sins鈥攂ehold, he will confess them and forsake them.'; (D%26amp;C 58:43)
Pray to Heavenly Father and be honest with him.
Tell him of your sin(s).
If necessary confess your sins to your local LDS bishop.
Ask for Forgiveness
';And it came to pass that I did frankly forgive them all that they had done, and I did exhort them that they would pray unto the Lord their God for forgiveness.'; (1 Nephi 7:21)
Pray to God for his forgiveness.
Forgive others who have hurt you.
Forgive yourself and know that God loves you, even though you've sinned.
Rectify Problems Caused by the Sin(s)
';And if it be stolen from him, he shall make restitution unto the owner thereof.'; (Exodus 22:12)
Make restitution by fixing any problems caused by your sin.
Problems caused by sin include physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual damage.
If you can't rectify the problem sincerely ask forgiveness of those wronged and try to find another way to show your change of heart.
Forsake Sin
';He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.'; (Proverbs 28:13)
Make a promise to yourself and to God that you will never repeat the sin.
Recommit yourself to obeying God's commandments.
Continue to repent if you sin again.
Receive Forgiveness
';Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.'; (D%26amp;C 58:42)
The Lord will forgive you when you truly repent with a sincere heart.
Allow his forgiveness to come upon you.
When you feel at peace with yourself you can know you are forgiven.
Don't hold onto your sin and the sorrow you've felt. Let it go by truly forgiving yourself, just as the Lord has forgiven you.
I really hope this has helped you!
A dancer or an actress!!! maybe even a singer....help!! advice plz from anyone!?
ok i am 14 going on 15! i am a pretty good dancer/singer/actress..and i wanna act n sing mostly..but i dunno where to start! when i sing i have stage fright...when i act..i mean i can really act pretty good...when i dance i dont like to dance in fornt of ppl! and i really wanna be an actress...where should i start? help plz great advice would be nice to have...A dancer or an actress!!! maybe even a singer....help!! advice plz from anyone!?
At 14 you are not good enough at any of these yet, don;t atke that personally, it is just a fact, you do not have the life experience or training to truly be a master of any of these three, so do not feel bad.
Take acting classes, get a vocal coach (this has to be one on one to be any good, and take dance classes.
If you truly want this career, read plays, study the art as a whole.
Good luck.A dancer or an actress!!! maybe even a singer....help!! advice plz from anyone!?
I sing, act and dance. Though acting was my passion I soon discovered that you need to be a triple threat to survive in this business. During my first vocal solo...I began to cry because I was sooo embarrassed but then I realized that this was the first step to overcoming my fears. So take a deep breath and just go for it. Then once they know where you stand they can help you to becmoe a better preformer and eventually you will be a solo singer and you will be the best you can be. AS for dancing, take a couple of extra classes until you are better, you'll be so good it'll be hard to not show everyone your moves. And last but not least go with your gut. Whatever your heart tells you, go for it
You are obviously most committed to acting (of the three) so focus your efforts in that area. Take every audition you can for school plays, community theater, etc. and get as much experience as possible. Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.
acting is a very hard thing to do u should think about it and if u really want to then go for it
Try Idyllwild Arts Academy, Interlochen arts academy, north carolina school of the arts. Study the craft. Idyllwild is best for musical theatre. Apply, and you can still get in, school starts sept 10th.
You nneed to get artistic training. There is more to it then pretending you are someone else. learn this.
The only way you'll get rid of stage fright is to perform as much as you can in front of people. It'll suck at first but you'll get use to it.
Think about it this way, when you're acting, you're not yourself you're a character. You need to let go of all your inhibitions.
If you really want to be a professional actress, you're going to need as much performing experience as possible and an agent.
GOod Luck!
you should sing first and dance while in your song then go to acting.
If you don't like to dance or sing in front of people you obviously shouldn't do those things. And that fact that you can only act ';pretty good'; doesn't lead me to believe that you can act very well at all, so I suggest you actually look into something that you have a chance at. Maybe you should take school seriously.
Learning how to spell and punctuate should be your first step.
try booming india
and they recruit online and its free:
http://www.baajaa.com/index/balajitelefi鈥?/a>
pos ut profile there by clicking on 'post a free ad'
g'luck
Wait till your really ready to get your shine on
Practice in front of people thats the only way U will get used to public. U can start with people U are used to and then move on from there.
Dancing, singing and acting are forms of creation.Talent is very important but it is not enough.
You have to work hard, learn a lot, experience. You feel something in yourself, but as you can't really decide yet, you should keep on doing all of them. Take lessons, go an see many plays, attend workshops.
Don't expect fright to disappear completely, but you should try to overcome it to some extent. Start by trying to define what are you afraid of: failure, people's reaction to what you do, that you can't reach the goal you set for yourself etc. Taking down some of your ideas, feelings, thoughts, experiences could help you a lot both in the moment of formulating them and later on, when you read them again.
You have to transform the stage into your own world be that for dance, singing and acting. To feel comfortable, when you step on.
I think that your being afraid comes from the insecurity inside you. Once you have understood how your body and voice works, when you will be able to decide what you want most, when you will be able to formulate the aim of your performance and your personal attitude towards it, you will be ready to go on stage. Be always aware of the goal you are heading towards, but concentrate only on the next step with all your mind ad soul.
You can do it!
learn how to say curse words with conviction. Too many of you actress-type girls are too nice.
practise alot, make sure you are very fit, they dont take stubby kids lol..and make sure you have that feel of emotions into ur voice. and ur lyrics have to b abt popularity or break ups..w.e cuz tt is more in style
Hello!
I would start off by auditioning for any local theatre productions that are happening n your area. The best way to lose stage-fright is to perform as much as possible.
At 14 you are not good enough at any of these yet, don;t atke that personally, it is just a fact, you do not have the life experience or training to truly be a master of any of these three, so do not feel bad.
Take acting classes, get a vocal coach (this has to be one on one to be any good, and take dance classes.
If you truly want this career, read plays, study the art as a whole.
Good luck.A dancer or an actress!!! maybe even a singer....help!! advice plz from anyone!?
I sing, act and dance. Though acting was my passion I soon discovered that you need to be a triple threat to survive in this business. During my first vocal solo...I began to cry because I was sooo embarrassed but then I realized that this was the first step to overcoming my fears. So take a deep breath and just go for it. Then once they know where you stand they can help you to becmoe a better preformer and eventually you will be a solo singer and you will be the best you can be. AS for dancing, take a couple of extra classes until you are better, you'll be so good it'll be hard to not show everyone your moves. And last but not least go with your gut. Whatever your heart tells you, go for it
You are obviously most committed to acting (of the three) so focus your efforts in that area. Take every audition you can for school plays, community theater, etc. and get as much experience as possible. Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.
acting is a very hard thing to do u should think about it and if u really want to then go for it
Try Idyllwild Arts Academy, Interlochen arts academy, north carolina school of the arts. Study the craft. Idyllwild is best for musical theatre. Apply, and you can still get in, school starts sept 10th.
You nneed to get artistic training. There is more to it then pretending you are someone else. learn this.
The only way you'll get rid of stage fright is to perform as much as you can in front of people. It'll suck at first but you'll get use to it.
Think about it this way, when you're acting, you're not yourself you're a character. You need to let go of all your inhibitions.
If you really want to be a professional actress, you're going to need as much performing experience as possible and an agent.
GOod Luck!
you should sing first and dance while in your song then go to acting.
If you don't like to dance or sing in front of people you obviously shouldn't do those things. And that fact that you can only act ';pretty good'; doesn't lead me to believe that you can act very well at all, so I suggest you actually look into something that you have a chance at. Maybe you should take school seriously.
Learning how to spell and punctuate should be your first step.
try booming india
and they recruit online and its free:
http://www.baajaa.com/index/balajitelefi鈥?/a>
pos ut profile there by clicking on 'post a free ad'
g'luck
Wait till your really ready to get your shine on
Practice in front of people thats the only way U will get used to public. U can start with people U are used to and then move on from there.
Dancing, singing and acting are forms of creation.Talent is very important but it is not enough.
You have to work hard, learn a lot, experience. You feel something in yourself, but as you can't really decide yet, you should keep on doing all of them. Take lessons, go an see many plays, attend workshops.
Don't expect fright to disappear completely, but you should try to overcome it to some extent. Start by trying to define what are you afraid of: failure, people's reaction to what you do, that you can't reach the goal you set for yourself etc. Taking down some of your ideas, feelings, thoughts, experiences could help you a lot both in the moment of formulating them and later on, when you read them again.
You have to transform the stage into your own world be that for dance, singing and acting. To feel comfortable, when you step on.
I think that your being afraid comes from the insecurity inside you. Once you have understood how your body and voice works, when you will be able to decide what you want most, when you will be able to formulate the aim of your performance and your personal attitude towards it, you will be ready to go on stage. Be always aware of the goal you are heading towards, but concentrate only on the next step with all your mind ad soul.
You can do it!
learn how to say curse words with conviction. Too many of you actress-type girls are too nice.
practise alot, make sure you are very fit, they dont take stubby kids lol..and make sure you have that feel of emotions into ur voice. and ur lyrics have to b abt popularity or break ups..w.e cuz tt is more in style
Hello!
I would start off by auditioning for any local theatre productions that are happening n your area. The best way to lose stage-fright is to perform as much as possible.
BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
I'm a sophomore in high school and i still haven't had an actual boyfriend. People constantly tell me i'm really hot, nice and funny and how everyone wants to go out with me, i'm so sick of just getting looked at.
If everyone thinks im so attractive, why don't more people ask me out?
how do i show someone that im interested because every guy i talk to thinks im not interested...?BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
.....BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
If people think your so perfect and everything, they may feel that you are out of their league. You may have to start showing the people that you like that you DO like them (im not telling you to whore out, im just saying you need to show that your interested).
Hope you find someone that makes you happy =)
If everyone thinks im so attractive, why don't more people ask me out?
how do i show someone that im interested because every guy i talk to thinks im not interested...?BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
.....BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
If people think your so perfect and everything, they may feel that you are out of their league. You may have to start showing the people that you like that you DO like them (im not telling you to whore out, im just saying you need to show that your interested).
Hope you find someone that makes you happy =)
Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
Hi, I invested Rs 100000 in a close ended mutual fund last year. But now, I am in the middle of a financial crisis. I have defaulted a couple of my loans. I badly need this money. Is there any way, I can pay back the tax for the amount and retrieve the amount now, instead of waiting for 3 years???
BR
KarthickHi All! I need your help/advice.....?
ya u can the amt get by surrendering the policy. bt u wont get the full amt u invested. Better call 2 the insurance company where u invested or ur financial consultant for more details.Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
First, if you have NSC, pledge it to bank, you will get 75% loan at 11-11.5%int.
Second, Pledge gold with the bank, it will be better than surrendering the mutual funds.no makeup
BR
KarthickHi All! I need your help/advice.....?
ya u can the amt get by surrendering the policy. bt u wont get the full amt u invested. Better call 2 the insurance company where u invested or ur financial consultant for more details.Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
First, if you have NSC, pledge it to bank, you will get 75% loan at 11-11.5%int.
Second, Pledge gold with the bank, it will be better than surrendering the mutual funds.
Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
A friend of mine has the flu and as a result he is not eating.
He hasn't eaten properly in about 5 days because he says it makes him ill. Despite this he is going to the toilet regularly and he's lost just over a stone in those 5 days.
What can I do?
When will he get better?
Somebody please help.....
ThanksHelp! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
i had horrid flu last Christmas and i didnt want to eat anything for well over a week. appetite just went. i found plenty of fluids helped, fruit teas, lucozade, water but also ice lollies really helped too with the sore throat. Soup was good too.
if it doesnt clear up then maybe get to a doctor but im reluctant these days coz they wont prescribe anything and you usually end up coming out with other bugs too!Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
You don't say if he's keeping his fluids up, he can go with a little food for quite a while but he must keep his fluids up. If he's not and you're getting worried, speak to his doc - he may need to go to hospital and be put on a drip if he dehydrates too much.
He should go to the doctor. There are lots of horrible bugs going around at the moment and it's impossible to say when it will go away. His body should fight it off on it's own eventually but he may need antibiotics or something.
Your friend needs to see a doctor. He could be dehydrated which is very dangerous. I hope he will feel better soon.
He hasn't eaten properly in about 5 days because he says it makes him ill. Despite this he is going to the toilet regularly and he's lost just over a stone in those 5 days.
What can I do?
When will he get better?
Somebody please help.....
ThanksHelp! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
i had horrid flu last Christmas and i didnt want to eat anything for well over a week. appetite just went. i found plenty of fluids helped, fruit teas, lucozade, water but also ice lollies really helped too with the sore throat. Soup was good too.
if it doesnt clear up then maybe get to a doctor but im reluctant these days coz they wont prescribe anything and you usually end up coming out with other bugs too!Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
You don't say if he's keeping his fluids up, he can go with a little food for quite a while but he must keep his fluids up. If he's not and you're getting worried, speak to his doc - he may need to go to hospital and be put on a drip if he dehydrates too much.
He should go to the doctor. There are lots of horrible bugs going around at the moment and it's impossible to say when it will go away. His body should fight it off on it's own eventually but he may need antibiotics or something.
Your friend needs to see a doctor. He could be dehydrated which is very dangerous. I hope he will feel better soon.
I need advice on how to advertise my face painting & balloons for parties. HELP!?
I am trying to think of some cheaper ideas on how to expand my face painting and balloon twisties business for parties and other special events. I am new to this business, so I can't afford alot to spend. I have posted on CL, put up some flyers.. with some sucsess. Any other ideas ? Any advice is greatly appriciated! Any other face painters out there with some ideas EVEN BETTER!! Thanks so much!I need advice on how to advertise my face painting %26amp; balloons for parties. HELP!?
These are things I did to become successful
1) I run a custom embroidery company and you need to create your cooperate identity. Create your logo and business name on your cooperate apparel.
2) Put the logo on your Auto
3) Make up business cards and hand them out. Every time you see someone you know hand several of them out. When you give people your business card, always give them more than one and ask them to give them to their friends/coworkers, etc. Print or flyers and post them on public boards if there are any near you and post in a forums that related to your location if there are any!
4) The key for this kind of business is word-of-mouth. Think of some clever ways to encourage your existing clients to tell people about you. Perhaps you could start with a friend or family member to be one of your ';spokesperson';. I owned a convenience store for 10 years and a lot of business deals started in the checkout line by strangers. Tell everyone about you and ask if they know anyone that could use your service. Ask for a referral from an existing client
5) Start a website as a way to advertise you. Let your website work for you and your clients swap links. When making your own web site do some research on how to optimize your site so that you get a good ranking with a natural search. You do this by embedding smart key words. Your website could show your community involvement and you could have questions and answers on the site.
6) Look for websites that you can advertise for free. Advertise in the Yahoo local. Find free on-line classified web sites for your community. Typically the local chamber of commerce will offer such a service. You can advertise here for free: http://www.hits2u.com/?149843
http://goldbizz.localads.co.uk
http://www.trafficswarm.com/go.cgi?48605
http://www.koolplaz.com/
Post a link to your site for free when it is allowed
Try These:
Craigslist http://www.craigslist.com
Google Base http://base.google.com
Yahoo Classifieds http://classifieds.yahoo.com/
US Free Ads http://www.usfreeads.com/
Text Link Exchange http://www.txtswap.com/
Recycler.com http://www.recycler.com/
Classifieds for Free http://www.classifiedsforfree.com/...
7) A Yellow page ad seems to work great also.
8) Try to get your local newspaper to do a free article on your business.
9) Sponsor local sport teams or ballparks that hang up banners. There are also inexpensive ways to advertise like a local penny saver newspaper, high school yearbooks and newspapers, etc.
10) Call radio show call in and contest and always answer or make the statement with ';your name and company name and you have been working hard'; free radio ads are great.
article submission, link swap and free classifieds.
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice on how to advertise my face painting %26amp; balloons for parties. HELP!?
Try your library. Many libraries do mom and tot classes
Gym Jams, or any childrens play facilities.
Your flyers should be in colour and have examples of your work. Black ink on coloured paper just doesn't show what you have to offer.
Look into upcoming festivals or city events through your city hall. Ask them what they usually pay for this service. You may undercut yourself. Then you can offer your services at a deducted rate to the public or they pay you a fee. I wouldn't charge full pop if they allow your cards/flyers for the public.
Set up in a mall on a Saturday.Do a couple of faces and balloons for free to get the crowds coming in.
Volunteer at a children's hospital. This will gain respect from the public and some rerferels etc
Instead of flyers, tie cards to the balloons and hand them out to families or gently put them on windshields (card with string) on any car with children's seats in the back. Target marketing
Hope this helps.
Try this website for business social networking
www.petads. bappy. com/adlandpro.html
http://freerotator.com/ro/?r=1%26amp;u=candyca鈥?/a>
Adlandpro offers free business social networking, free classifieds, forums, and more...
Your best bet is to do social networking with people in your niche. Get into groups where people are trying to host parties. You can promote your business there.
Why don't you ask your friends and family to distribute your fame. I mean, I am sure they know of people who can use a face painter at an event or birthday party. Make sure that you provide the best service so that you begin to build a great reputation and be a successful and well known face painter. This way you will have lots of customers for future reference!
God bless!
some great and free ways to advertise would be.
http://www.swaggerspot.com - free newsletter and way more
http://www.craigslist.com - most things are free
http://www.rushfun.com - target a specific group
http://www.myspace.com - target over 200 million people
http://r.yuwie.com/website - target over 300,000 people
http://www.google.com - adwords
http://www.youtube.com - make a video to promote
blogs like http://iraqiwarvote.blogspot.com - example of blogs
set up a booth at a local mall and do free face painting for kids and give out baloons, but be sure to slip your card into the pockets of the parents as well.
FYI - you are going to get answers that say advertise online or one their blog, which is a joke. You do face painting in a small regional area, so be smart about it...
These are things I did to become successful
1) I run a custom embroidery company and you need to create your cooperate identity. Create your logo and business name on your cooperate apparel.
2) Put the logo on your Auto
3) Make up business cards and hand them out. Every time you see someone you know hand several of them out. When you give people your business card, always give them more than one and ask them to give them to their friends/coworkers, etc. Print or flyers and post them on public boards if there are any near you and post in a forums that related to your location if there are any!
4) The key for this kind of business is word-of-mouth. Think of some clever ways to encourage your existing clients to tell people about you. Perhaps you could start with a friend or family member to be one of your ';spokesperson';. I owned a convenience store for 10 years and a lot of business deals started in the checkout line by strangers. Tell everyone about you and ask if they know anyone that could use your service. Ask for a referral from an existing client
5) Start a website as a way to advertise you. Let your website work for you and your clients swap links. When making your own web site do some research on how to optimize your site so that you get a good ranking with a natural search. You do this by embedding smart key words. Your website could show your community involvement and you could have questions and answers on the site.
6) Look for websites that you can advertise for free. Advertise in the Yahoo local. Find free on-line classified web sites for your community. Typically the local chamber of commerce will offer such a service. You can advertise here for free: http://www.hits2u.com/?149843
http://goldbizz.localads.co.uk
http://www.trafficswarm.com/go.cgi?48605
http://www.koolplaz.com/
Post a link to your site for free when it is allowed
Try These:
Craigslist http://www.craigslist.com
Google Base http://base.google.com
Yahoo Classifieds http://classifieds.yahoo.com/
US Free Ads http://www.usfreeads.com/
Text Link Exchange http://www.txtswap.com/
Recycler.com http://www.recycler.com/
Classifieds for Free http://www.classifiedsforfree.com/...
7) A Yellow page ad seems to work great also.
8) Try to get your local newspaper to do a free article on your business.
9) Sponsor local sport teams or ballparks that hang up banners. There are also inexpensive ways to advertise like a local penny saver newspaper, high school yearbooks and newspapers, etc.
10) Call radio show call in and contest and always answer or make the statement with ';your name and company name and you have been working hard'; free radio ads are great.
article submission, link swap and free classifieds.
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice on how to advertise my face painting %26amp; balloons for parties. HELP!?
Try your library. Many libraries do mom and tot classes
Gym Jams, or any childrens play facilities.
Your flyers should be in colour and have examples of your work. Black ink on coloured paper just doesn't show what you have to offer.
Look into upcoming festivals or city events through your city hall. Ask them what they usually pay for this service. You may undercut yourself. Then you can offer your services at a deducted rate to the public or they pay you a fee. I wouldn't charge full pop if they allow your cards/flyers for the public.
Set up in a mall on a Saturday.Do a couple of faces and balloons for free to get the crowds coming in.
Volunteer at a children's hospital. This will gain respect from the public and some rerferels etc
Instead of flyers, tie cards to the balloons and hand them out to families or gently put them on windshields (card with string) on any car with children's seats in the back. Target marketing
Hope this helps.
Try this website for business social networking
www.petads. bappy. com/adlandpro.html
http://freerotator.com/ro/?r=1%26amp;u=candyca鈥?/a>
Adlandpro offers free business social networking, free classifieds, forums, and more...
Your best bet is to do social networking with people in your niche. Get into groups where people are trying to host parties. You can promote your business there.
Why don't you ask your friends and family to distribute your fame. I mean, I am sure they know of people who can use a face painter at an event or birthday party. Make sure that you provide the best service so that you begin to build a great reputation and be a successful and well known face painter. This way you will have lots of customers for future reference!
God bless!
some great and free ways to advertise would be.
http://www.swaggerspot.com - free newsletter and way more
http://www.craigslist.com - most things are free
http://www.rushfun.com - target a specific group
http://www.myspace.com - target over 200 million people
http://r.yuwie.com/website - target over 300,000 people
http://www.google.com - adwords
http://www.youtube.com - make a video to promote
blogs like http://iraqiwarvote.blogspot.com - example of blogs
set up a booth at a local mall and do free face painting for kids and give out baloons, but be sure to slip your card into the pockets of the parents as well.
FYI - you are going to get answers that say advertise online or one their blog, which is a joke. You do face painting in a small regional area, so be smart about it...
DRIVERS TEST HELP/ADVICE/TIPS?
Ok so Friday I'm taking my drivers test to get my license,here in Florida.Im gonna be taking it in a small stick shift and I'm very vervous about the stick.Could anyone tell me the Do's and Don'ts to do while taking your test in a stick? Also,can you refer to me to any drivers test videos so I know what to expect parking,three point turn,etc. Thank You!DRIVERS TEST HELP/ADVICE/TIPS?
When taking the test in a manual transmission car, don't stall and make sure you pick the right gear.
When taking the test in a manual transmission car, don't stall and make sure you pick the right gear.
Java code help/advice........?
write a program which asks the user to type in an integer representing his/her age. if the integer is
1.%26gt;40, prints ';You are very old';
2.%26lt;18, prints ';You are very young';
3. Otherwise prints ';You are in the prime of your life';
You may assume that the user will not make any typing errors
Thanks a lot for your helpJava code help/advice........?
So the question I have to ask is do I really want to help you with something that is so easy?
if (inputAge %26gt; 40) {
System.out.println(';You are very old';);
} else {
if (inputAge %26lt; 18) {
System.out.println(';You are very young';);
} else {
System.out.println(';You are in the prime of your life';);
}
}
Have fun.
1.%26gt;40, prints ';You are very old';
2.%26lt;18, prints ';You are very young';
3. Otherwise prints ';You are in the prime of your life';
You may assume that the user will not make any typing errors
Thanks a lot for your helpJava code help/advice........?
So the question I have to ask is do I really want to help you with something that is so easy?
if (inputAge %26gt; 40) {
System.out.println(';You are very old';);
} else {
if (inputAge %26lt; 18) {
System.out.println(';You are very young';);
} else {
System.out.println(';You are in the prime of your life';);
}
}
Have fun.
I need help/advice..?
My dad was in the hospital a couple days ago.
He's having black outs and bad back pains.
My dad is like my best friend and I feel really bad.
He can't drive, and he's really bummed about it.
What are some fun things we can do?
With the exception of his back pain..
please don't answer if you don't know
or have obvious answers like
read a book
or
watch a movie..
thank you.I need help/advice..?
Lift his spirits =)
Make him laugh.
Just as an example:
When my mum went into hospital for pneumonia,
(when she was discharged and at home)
me and my 4 siblings did a little funny lip syncing performance thingo to welcome her back home.
(haha kind of had to be there but it was hilarious)
Think about something to warm up the cold clinical feel
that hospitals have, maybe?
Kay so you said no watching movies or anything
but another way of doing something fun is getting
some of his favourite DVDs and taking it into his hospital
room maybe even renting a projector?? and projecting
some of his fave movies on a wall or something with popcorn
and munchies!
Do some baking for him!
Think of things that he likes!
Maybe some sport?
Make sure he has his paper everyday.
It's the little things that which perk him up.
Not too sure =)
Think outside of the box.I need help/advice..?
you can look at old family photos of when you were little with your dad. then you guys could tell funny stories, that would really make him laugh. you can cook/bake him something to eat, and you can invite other family members to visit him.
If his back hurts like hell.....
play video games?
board games
tick tak toe
watch funny videos on you tube
i hope he gets better,good luck =D
He's having black outs and bad back pains.
My dad is like my best friend and I feel really bad.
He can't drive, and he's really bummed about it.
What are some fun things we can do?
With the exception of his back pain..
please don't answer if you don't know
or have obvious answers like
read a book
or
watch a movie..
thank you.I need help/advice..?
Lift his spirits =)
Make him laugh.
Just as an example:
When my mum went into hospital for pneumonia,
(when she was discharged and at home)
me and my 4 siblings did a little funny lip syncing performance thingo to welcome her back home.
(haha kind of had to be there but it was hilarious)
Think about something to warm up the cold clinical feel
that hospitals have, maybe?
Kay so you said no watching movies or anything
but another way of doing something fun is getting
some of his favourite DVDs and taking it into his hospital
room maybe even renting a projector?? and projecting
some of his fave movies on a wall or something with popcorn
and munchies!
Do some baking for him!
Think of things that he likes!
Maybe some sport?
Make sure he has his paper everyday.
It's the little things that which perk him up.
Not too sure =)
Think outside of the box.I need help/advice..?
you can look at old family photos of when you were little with your dad. then you guys could tell funny stories, that would really make him laugh. you can cook/bake him something to eat, and you can invite other family members to visit him.
If his back hurts like hell.....
play video games?
board games
tick tak toe
watch funny videos on you tube
i hope he gets better,good luck =D
New school help. advice on outfit to (:
i'm going to a new school. and im going to be in 8th grade. i'm a little scared. i've moved 5 times so you would think i wouldn't be that scared. but still i am. do you have any advice? also i just moved to ladera ranch. and it's in orange county. i always wear abercrombie and hollister. then i decided i wanted to be different. but then i realized i don't. i just wanna fit it. and be popular. like i have been. so outfit idea's???? advice???? please please ((:New school help. advice on outfit to (:
wow i was in the same situation as you! i have moved so many times and i know how it is to think you should be used to it now! but don't worry 8th grade is awesome! you really get to experince how awesome it is to be at the top of the school! as for the being popular real popular is just having awesome friends who you can have a blast with! so don't worry about that either because u will have no problem with that! Just stick to the clothes ur comfortable in...u could try urban outfitters if you wanted to go a little different(they have awesome clothes...or forever 21 they are awesome!!!! well i hope i helped and you no worries you will have the time of your life!New school help. advice on outfit to (:
8th grade is awesome. it was my secound best year, have fun.
and, dont do anything stupied.
xDno makeup
wow i was in the same situation as you! i have moved so many times and i know how it is to think you should be used to it now! but don't worry 8th grade is awesome! you really get to experince how awesome it is to be at the top of the school! as for the being popular real popular is just having awesome friends who you can have a blast with! so don't worry about that either because u will have no problem with that! Just stick to the clothes ur comfortable in...u could try urban outfitters if you wanted to go a little different(they have awesome clothes...or forever 21 they are awesome!!!! well i hope i helped and you no worries you will have the time of your life!New school help. advice on outfit to (:
8th grade is awesome. it was my secound best year, have fun.
and, dont do anything stupied.
xD
Concert review help/advice please?
Hey so I'm supposed to write an article reviewing a concert I saw, and I need some help. I've never reviewed a concert before, at least not on paper for a newspaper....(school newspaper)
So any pointers? Please anything helps1
thanks!Concert review help/advice please?
a set list is a very good starting point cause then you can go through it song by song. Talk about anything unusual - any obscure songs or cover versions especially.
Always good to start with some background on the band/artist cause your readers might not know anything about them...and you can talk about the band's style/look, between songs banter and crowd reaction.
Here are a few I've written for blogs and stuff...
http://buttoneddowndisco.blogspot.com/2004/12/live-review-darkness-at-brixton.html
http://www.geocities.com/katese5/blur.htm
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view%26amp;friendID=40068665%26amp;blogID=161098112%26amp;MyToken=f96a3678-204b-40ed-a708-17fc9b738ca1
Hope this helps!!Concert review help/advice please?
First you can point out the good things you found in the concert. then the things you feel that could have been in a better way. Logical errors ect.
finally give an idea whether it worth spending time and money to watch. Never tell the climax to readers.
Some excellent examples of concert reviews here:
http://www.nyrock.com/reviews.asp
Try to cover the techno part - music, sound quality, lighting, etc as well as crowd reaction, and the performer's level of interaction with the crowd, what you think the band/performer was trying to achieve, and whether or not you think they succeeded
So any pointers? Please anything helps1
thanks!Concert review help/advice please?
a set list is a very good starting point cause then you can go through it song by song. Talk about anything unusual - any obscure songs or cover versions especially.
Always good to start with some background on the band/artist cause your readers might not know anything about them...and you can talk about the band's style/look, between songs banter and crowd reaction.
Here are a few I've written for blogs and stuff...
http://buttoneddowndisco.blogspot.com/2004/12/live-review-darkness-at-brixton.html
http://www.geocities.com/katese5/blur.htm
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view%26amp;friendID=40068665%26amp;blogID=161098112%26amp;MyToken=f96a3678-204b-40ed-a708-17fc9b738ca1
Hope this helps!!Concert review help/advice please?
First you can point out the good things you found in the concert. then the things you feel that could have been in a better way. Logical errors ect.
finally give an idea whether it worth spending time and money to watch. Never tell the climax to readers.
Some excellent examples of concert reviews here:
http://www.nyrock.com/reviews.asp
Try to cover the techno part - music, sound quality, lighting, etc as well as crowd reaction, and the performer's level of interaction with the crowd, what you think the band/performer was trying to achieve, and whether or not you think they succeeded
Need medical help / advice!!
So i got this anti anxiety medicine called clorazpete, aka traxene 15mg to help supress my anxiety attacks that i seem to ONLY get on planes so i was wondering should i be taking this medicine days before i go on the plane which will be 8/11 or should i take it before i just board the plane?Need medical help / advice!!
Benzodiazepines usually only last for about 12 hours, You will feel really tired if you take them more than you need, take them on the way to the airportNeed medical help / advice!!
First of all what are the instructions given on the bottle? Do you take it daily? Or is it just for when you fly?
Traxene is the type of benzodiazepine that stays in the body for longer periods. It normally kicks in within 2 hrs. and should last for the duration of the plane ride.
So, depending on how it is prescribed, and how many you normally take daily, your best bet is to call the pharmacist or your Dr. and ask them.
Call your local pharmacist or your doctor for a safer answer. You may even be able to find a 24-hour pharmacy like CVS Pharmacy and just call and speak to the Pharmacist.
I used to take Xanax but my dr. told me it wouldn't build up in my system and would only stay in my system for so long. Each medication works differently, even if it is for the same symptoms.
Good luck!
i would take it for about 3 days before you get on the plane
it is not that much, and it is not going to harm you in any way to take it for a few days. take it 3 days before your return flight as well, and hope that it helps
I hope you are taking them on the advice of the doctor.Please take them before you board the plane.It takes about 1/2 hr for the medicine to start taking effect.
I suggest you ask the prescribing doctor, or do a google search for the med...
Benzodiazepines usually only last for about 12 hours, You will feel really tired if you take them more than you need, take them on the way to the airportNeed medical help / advice!!
First of all what are the instructions given on the bottle? Do you take it daily? Or is it just for when you fly?
Traxene is the type of benzodiazepine that stays in the body for longer periods. It normally kicks in within 2 hrs. and should last for the duration of the plane ride.
So, depending on how it is prescribed, and how many you normally take daily, your best bet is to call the pharmacist or your Dr. and ask them.
Call your local pharmacist or your doctor for a safer answer. You may even be able to find a 24-hour pharmacy like CVS Pharmacy and just call and speak to the Pharmacist.
I used to take Xanax but my dr. told me it wouldn't build up in my system and would only stay in my system for so long. Each medication works differently, even if it is for the same symptoms.
Good luck!
i would take it for about 3 days before you get on the plane
it is not that much, and it is not going to harm you in any way to take it for a few days. take it 3 days before your return flight as well, and hope that it helps
I hope you are taking them on the advice of the doctor.Please take them before you board the plane.It takes about 1/2 hr for the medicine to start taking effect.
I suggest you ask the prescribing doctor, or do a google search for the med...
Need some help/advice...pls?
Im a filipina,21. and a member of dating site and there man who always email me even i dont email him back...and he called me twice a week...at first I dont really want answering his call so i turn off my cellphone every time i feel he will be calling.One of my sister told me that I need to talk to him cause he seems a nice guy.. but I dont know what to tell him or what to talk about when he call me again, I dont want to be rude...what will be the best thing to do in this situation?Need some help/advice...pls?
If you're a member of a dating site why don't you wanna answer to the guy's calls? Aren't a member of that site in order to know and (who knows) to date people?
What's the use of being a member and not accepting calls, e.mails? So cancel your membership!Need some help/advice...pls?
Keep it simple, ask him not to call, as you are not interested.
Send it in an email if you're afraid to tell him on the phone.
If he gets angry or rude, just hang up and block any further contacts from him
take things slow and tell him your shy through email so he understands, then eventually you two can talk on the phone if you feel comfortable enough after a few weeks
Why won't you talk to him??
How did he get your phone number?
Look, meeting people online is fine as long as you understand that not everyone who seems like a nice person really is a nice person. You would be very foolish to give personal information to someone you met online. You don't know what kind of person they really are. All you know is what they are telling you.
If you are not encouraging this man and he is still contacting you then you need to be very careful. Don't listen to your sister. Report him to the dating site. If they are legitimate and responsible they will contact him and ask him to stop contacting you.
ignore him
If you're a member of a dating site why don't you wanna answer to the guy's calls? Aren't a member of that site in order to know and (who knows) to date people?
What's the use of being a member and not accepting calls, e.mails? So cancel your membership!Need some help/advice...pls?
Keep it simple, ask him not to call, as you are not interested.
Send it in an email if you're afraid to tell him on the phone.
If he gets angry or rude, just hang up and block any further contacts from him
take things slow and tell him your shy through email so he understands, then eventually you two can talk on the phone if you feel comfortable enough after a few weeks
Why won't you talk to him??
How did he get your phone number?
Look, meeting people online is fine as long as you understand that not everyone who seems like a nice person really is a nice person. You would be very foolish to give personal information to someone you met online. You don't know what kind of person they really are. All you know is what they are telling you.
If you are not encouraging this man and he is still contacting you then you need to be very careful. Don't listen to your sister. Report him to the dating site. If they are legitimate and responsible they will contact him and ask him to stop contacting you.
ignore him
Life Advice Please Help?
I am currently a senior in high school and the time to turn in college applications is rapidly approaching. Unfortunately, I'm not sure that I want to go straight to college. Don't get me wrong, I have great grades and definitely want to attend college, I just want to see the world for a while and live my life to the fullest. I have yet to tell the parents about this. Please give me any any advice and/or stories of personal experiences that you have. I really appreciate it, thanksLife Advice Please Help?
I thought the same thing, and ended up working in a liquor store for a year because I was unmotivated. My folks were v p*ssed. I have a great job now, but I really regret missing out on the whole college experience - you never get another chance, and the real world will always be there, whatever your age.
My advice: Make sure you have a plan, and the money to do what you want to do with your gap year. If your folks know you have a plan and aren't slacking, they will take it MUCH easier. I'm in the UK and over here we can apply for college, accept a place then defer (hold it) for a year - don't know if it is the same in the US but might be worth looking into.
Good luck, and remember - we are here for a good time, not a long time, so make the most of it while you can!
I thought the same thing, and ended up working in a liquor store for a year because I was unmotivated. My folks were v p*ssed. I have a great job now, but I really regret missing out on the whole college experience - you never get another chance, and the real world will always be there, whatever your age.
My advice: Make sure you have a plan, and the money to do what you want to do with your gap year. If your folks know you have a plan and aren't slacking, they will take it MUCH easier. I'm in the UK and over here we can apply for college, accept a place then defer (hold it) for a year - don't know if it is the same in the US but might be worth looking into.
Good luck, and remember - we are here for a good time, not a long time, so make the most of it while you can!
Kissing Advice? (please help!)?
im getting my first kiss soon. I want to be ready so what should i expect. Any tips to be a good kisser? Or is it natural? ThanksKissing Advice? (please help!)?
1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.
2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
3. Be forward about your feelings and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling so desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out!
4. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
5. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
6. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
7. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation - no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
8. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips, he will get the signal you want more!
9. If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!
10. When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.
11. Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.
12. Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.
13. If he doesn't like you then he doesn't, try and get over it. Depending on the guy sometimes showing compassion will get him back.
14. If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies thats him asking for it.
15. If you make him feel comfortable he will make the first move!
16. Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.
17. If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.
18. DON'T think too much! Just think about him... a.k.a. how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him. See the things such as is he caring, funny, fun to hang with.
19. Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy!
20. Don't be too hesitant, if you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away! it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!
21. Also remember that many boys are shy. If there is something between you two, and you still haven't kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.Kissing Advice? (please help!)?
*Wait for the right moment.*
There鈥檚 usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you鈥檙e doing and silently look into the person鈥檚 eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.
*Approach for the kiss.*
Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).
*Kiss gently.*
There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There鈥檚 a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don鈥檛 press your mouth onto your partner鈥檚--just let your lips meet--and don鈥檛 try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner鈥檚. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn鈥檛 pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.
*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*
Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don鈥檛 move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like ';What is he/she thinking about?';, ';Do I look good tonight?';, or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.
The first kiss is always a flub. Haha. Sorry I know thats not the advice that you wanted... but its the truth. But they get better. Soon you will find yourself wanting them all the time. You will even try to sneak a couple in while sitting at red lights. :)
Good Luck, Dont be Nervous,
Stormy
Don't listen to the guy that said to have your clothes off.
Check out my question, it's like the same as yours. I got wonderful answeres that you should see.
Here's one answer from somone:
';-make sure your breath is good.
-lips are soft.
-and really it's not all about tounge. don't use to much.
-use your lips!!!!! (this is very important)
-and relax!';
Good luck!
i think its more natural. and first kisses are kinda supposed to be messed up; it's expected. just don't do anything stupid. im sure you've seen enough movies and tv to understand what right and wrong kissing is. it will just come to you, don't worry. and if you do mess up a little dont get embarest, just giggle and restart
hope i helped :)
Wow, you know your getting your first kiss in advance? Lol. i remember mine, he leaned in to kiss me and i backed away lol, and i said ';sorry, lets try that again'; lol. So first thing, dont back away. you shouldnt use tongue, cuz well its not a nice first kiss. Closed mouth. peck. then go to an open mouth one
popkiss the first time. keep your lips relax and dont rush so much that ull bump heads. give him ';the look'; and hold him liek a hug even tho u prob wont remember what you did with your hands. teh guy will turn or bend down and all that stufff. you jsut relax and aim.
i think everyone kisses different. everyone ive kissed hasnt really kissed the same. just let it be natural. and if your feeling nervous let them lead [ya i know that sounds strange] but just follow them and dont think to hard.
its weird
i asked the same question 2 weeks ago
tap kiss + no skill
makeout
do's= tap, makeout,tap makout back and forth, hold hands, back head...
donts= open mouth hole time no touching head still
umm your boyfriend should work it out don't worry.
and if your worried give him a small kiss it doesn't allways have to be a big one.
I haven't had my first kiss yet either. I guess we're kind of on the same page. xD
I think it really just comes naturally, there isn't really a such thing as advice I don't think...
Tess xx
Good luck! =]
practice on cherry steams if ur not confident
Tie the cherry stem with ur tongue...
THERE YA GO
make sure you have your clothes off.
make sure you have your clothes on first... and being nervous is normal, just dont make it akward!
1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.
2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.
3. Be forward about your feelings and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling so desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out!
4. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!
5. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.
6. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.
7. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation - no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
8. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips, he will get the signal you want more!
9. If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!
10. When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.
11. Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.
12. Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.
13. If he doesn't like you then he doesn't, try and get over it. Depending on the guy sometimes showing compassion will get him back.
14. If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies thats him asking for it.
15. If you make him feel comfortable he will make the first move!
16. Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.
17. If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.
18. DON'T think too much! Just think about him... a.k.a. how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him. See the things such as is he caring, funny, fun to hang with.
19. Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy!
20. Don't be too hesitant, if you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away! it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!
21. Also remember that many boys are shy. If there is something between you two, and you still haven't kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.Kissing Advice? (please help!)?
*Wait for the right moment.*
There鈥檚 usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you鈥檙e doing and silently look into the person鈥檚 eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.
*Approach for the kiss.*
Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).
*Kiss gently.*
There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There鈥檚 a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don鈥檛 press your mouth onto your partner鈥檚--just let your lips meet--and don鈥檛 try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner鈥檚. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn鈥檛 pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.
*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*
Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don鈥檛 move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like ';What is he/she thinking about?';, ';Do I look good tonight?';, or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.
The first kiss is always a flub. Haha. Sorry I know thats not the advice that you wanted... but its the truth. But they get better. Soon you will find yourself wanting them all the time. You will even try to sneak a couple in while sitting at red lights. :)
Good Luck, Dont be Nervous,
Stormy
Don't listen to the guy that said to have your clothes off.
Check out my question, it's like the same as yours. I got wonderful answeres that you should see.
Here's one answer from somone:
';-make sure your breath is good.
-lips are soft.
-and really it's not all about tounge. don't use to much.
-use your lips!!!!! (this is very important)
-and relax!';
Good luck!
i think its more natural. and first kisses are kinda supposed to be messed up; it's expected. just don't do anything stupid. im sure you've seen enough movies and tv to understand what right and wrong kissing is. it will just come to you, don't worry. and if you do mess up a little dont get embarest, just giggle and restart
hope i helped :)
Wow, you know your getting your first kiss in advance? Lol. i remember mine, he leaned in to kiss me and i backed away lol, and i said ';sorry, lets try that again'; lol. So first thing, dont back away. you shouldnt use tongue, cuz well its not a nice first kiss. Closed mouth. peck. then go to an open mouth one
popkiss the first time. keep your lips relax and dont rush so much that ull bump heads. give him ';the look'; and hold him liek a hug even tho u prob wont remember what you did with your hands. teh guy will turn or bend down and all that stufff. you jsut relax and aim.
i think everyone kisses different. everyone ive kissed hasnt really kissed the same. just let it be natural. and if your feeling nervous let them lead [ya i know that sounds strange] but just follow them and dont think to hard.
its weird
i asked the same question 2 weeks ago
tap kiss + no skill
makeout
do's= tap, makeout,tap makout back and forth, hold hands, back head...
donts= open mouth hole time no touching head still
umm your boyfriend should work it out don't worry.
and if your worried give him a small kiss it doesn't allways have to be a big one.
I haven't had my first kiss yet either. I guess we're kind of on the same page. xD
I think it really just comes naturally, there isn't really a such thing as advice I don't think...
Tess xx
Good luck! =]
practice on cherry steams if ur not confident
Tie the cherry stem with ur tongue...
THERE YA GO
make sure you have your clothes off.
make sure you have your clothes on first... and being nervous is normal, just dont make it akward!
ANY ADVICE OR HELP FOR Me?
I need some advice on the following things-
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diet advice
makeup advice
winning a guy adviceANY ADVICE OR HELP FOR Me?
Hi Erin, welcome to Yahoo answers. It will cost you another 25 points, but you should submit the above as 5 different questions and you will get better answers.no makeup
neopets cheats/ advice
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diet advice
makeup advice
winning a guy adviceANY ADVICE OR HELP FOR Me?
Hi Erin, welcome to Yahoo answers. It will cost you another 25 points, but you should submit the above as 5 different questions and you will get better answers.
Please help me with advice on my choice ,Canon XTI or Olympus 5-10?
After reviewing my choices I came to the conclusion is between the Canon XTI or the Olympus 5-10 ,please any advice that you have will be welcome ,either as a profesional or as a amateur photographer .Iam a amateur ,I just want clear beatifull pics.
Thank s.Please help me with advice on my choice ,Canon XTI or Olympus 5-10?
Your only choice is really the Canon XTi for two reasons:
First you will notice the sensor in the Canon is larger in size when compared to the Olympus 510. The Focal length multiplier of the Canon is 1.6x, the Olympus 2x.
Secondly, there are many, many more lenses available for the Canon, new and used.
I have included a link ... with one other camera you may want to include in your choices.
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/compare_鈥?/a>
Take your time ... you will be using this camera for a long time.
NOTE: If you already have compatable lenses for these cameras, then don't change brands, just to get a certain bell or whistle found on one of the bodies.Please help me with advice on my choice ,Canon XTI or Olympus 5-10?
Canon for sure. Olympus doesnt a have a huge range of lenses, the 2x crop factor is a turn off for some people, and its imagine quality is not as good as the XTI. The Canon XTi has a whole range of lenses to choice from. No shortage of lenses and basically specic lenses for your needs.
CANON XTi !!!
It's a very good camera at a reasonable price. Image quality is excellent. This is the camera that I purchased for good quality shots.
Excellent selection of accessories available
Canon XTI is going to be a much better choice for good clear pics indoors and outdoors also. Canon XTI offers more user friendly options and the 10.1 megapixels will allow you to enlarge photos up 10 at least a 11/16 with no blur possibly even more depending on the clarity of the shot which getting a clear shot is not a problem with the Canon XTI.
tip: the best outdoor shots are taken before 10:30am and between 3:00 - 6:00pm in most locations, bright sunlight can hinder you from getting the picture you want.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PhotographersLimited
COMING SOON www.photographerslimited.com
Thank s.Please help me with advice on my choice ,Canon XTI or Olympus 5-10?
Your only choice is really the Canon XTi for two reasons:
First you will notice the sensor in the Canon is larger in size when compared to the Olympus 510. The Focal length multiplier of the Canon is 1.6x, the Olympus 2x.
Secondly, there are many, many more lenses available for the Canon, new and used.
I have included a link ... with one other camera you may want to include in your choices.
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/compare_鈥?/a>
Take your time ... you will be using this camera for a long time.
NOTE: If you already have compatable lenses for these cameras, then don't change brands, just to get a certain bell or whistle found on one of the bodies.Please help me with advice on my choice ,Canon XTI or Olympus 5-10?
Canon for sure. Olympus doesnt a have a huge range of lenses, the 2x crop factor is a turn off for some people, and its imagine quality is not as good as the XTI. The Canon XTi has a whole range of lenses to choice from. No shortage of lenses and basically specic lenses for your needs.
CANON XTi !!!
It's a very good camera at a reasonable price. Image quality is excellent. This is the camera that I purchased for good quality shots.
Excellent selection of accessories available
Canon XTI is going to be a much better choice for good clear pics indoors and outdoors also. Canon XTI offers more user friendly options and the 10.1 megapixels will allow you to enlarge photos up 10 at least a 11/16 with no blur possibly even more depending on the clarity of the shot which getting a clear shot is not a problem with the Canon XTI.
tip: the best outdoor shots are taken before 10:30am and between 3:00 - 6:00pm in most locations, bright sunlight can hinder you from getting the picture you want.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PhotographersLimited
COMING SOON www.photographerslimited.com
Some help with guy advice please?
So lets say theres a guy that you really like, and you're pretty sure that he likes you too, but he has a gf (for now). how do i go about asking him for his number, would it be weird for me to get his number from one of my friends and just randomly txt him? or should i ask him for it?Some help with guy advice please?
Yes it will be weird so u have to ask him urself its better....
Yes it will be weird so u have to ask him urself its better....
BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
I'm a sophomore in high school and i still haven't had an actual boyfriend. People constantly tell me i'm really hot, nice and funny and how everyone wants to go out with me, i'm so sick of just getting looked at.
If everyone thinks im so attractive, why don't more people ask me out?
how do i show someone that im interested because every guy i talk to thinks im not interested...?BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
.....BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
If people think your so perfect and everything, they may feel that you are out of their league. You may have to start showing the people that you like that you DO like them (im not telling you to whore out, im just saying you need to show that your interested).
Hope you find someone that makes you happy =)
If everyone thinks im so attractive, why don't more people ask me out?
how do i show someone that im interested because every guy i talk to thinks im not interested...?BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
.....BOYFRIEND ADVICE please help?
If people think your so perfect and everything, they may feel that you are out of their league. You may have to start showing the people that you like that you DO like them (im not telling you to whore out, im just saying you need to show that your interested).
Hope you find someone that makes you happy =)
Christian advice, please help?
I am a Christian and I know that I'm saved, but I feel a lot of guilt for my sins and everything else that I do. I haven't live that bad of a life, but I feel really dirty. Even when I ask for forgiveness, I don't really feel relief. Any advice?Christian advice, please help?
its satan trying to worry you.
Jesus paid for you sins
you are free.
You are a child of the MOST HIGH GOD
you have royal blood in your veins.
Your real Dad is the King of kings
dont let the devil steel your joy
May Yeshua ( Jesus ) bless you dear oneChristian advice, please help?
Pray for repentance. What I mean is that just asking for forgiveness although it's the right direction, you need to be diligent about it, and pray for repentance, and a contrite heart. If you are diligent, and continually keep your eyes on Jesus, you will feel forgiven, because God loves a contrite heart. I feel most loved by God, and at peace with God when I deeply regret sins, and the Holy Spirit convicts me of sins. If you just feel bad, and just half heartedly ask for forgiveness you are not truly repenting. I can't make a judgement on that, I'm just basing it on my own experience. I hope this makes sense. There is much more too it.
Jesus is coming soon, so be careful what you read, watch, say, hear, and do. Pay attention to what happens in Isreal and the countries surrounding it, but try not to get caught up in the things of the world, and worldy lusts. If you love your life, you will lose your soul.
Read the Bible with a fresh pair of eyes, and hear what it says with a fresh pair of ears like a child hearing it for the first time. Ask yourself, do I really believe this? I think you will be blessed if you do.
forgive me for saying it but the reason you feel that way is because you don't know how to forgive. it is so important to forgive. you say you believe in christ but if i asked you what he died for , you will quickly say for our sins. if that is the case then you are saying that he died for nothing or you are saying that your sins are too big for him to have saved you from. either way is not true. it is that attack of the devil to make you feel that you are not really saved and washed clean. trust that you are and don't focus on your shortcomings. you are not alone
The devil loves to make Christians feel shame and guilt about their sins. But you need to know this once you ask the Lord to forgive you for holding anything against anyone else, then forgive yourself too. Forgiveness is not an emotion you do not feel sorry. But it is an action. God forgives you and forgets, so if you were to ask Him about it. He would not know what you are talking about.
Just thank the Lord and praise Jesus for paying for your sins. You are free!! :)
I John 1:9, keep repeating it. God cannot lie, so if He says we are forgiven, we are. The problem is us believing this without ';doing'; something. We feel like we have fix something or whatever to really be forgiven, if at all.
The truth is, confess to God whatever is holding you back and take it by faith that He has forgiven you, so now you must forgive yourself.
Condemnation comes from the enemy, conviction is what the Holy Spirit does to call us to repentance.
So, if you still feel condemed for sin, its not from God, Satan is trying to keep you bound to that thing. Once you confess (convictions role) and turn away from that thing, you should ';feel'; free. I say feel this way because your and my freedom and cleansing etc. is not based on our feelings, its based on what Christ did for us.
Let that load be lifted and be free again! Read I Peter 5:7 (one of my favorite scriptures).
There are the ABC's to repentence that has been discovered.
Abandon
Be sorry
Confess
Don't do it again
Now I don't know what branch of Christianity you fall into, but mine is the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The atonement (http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?index=鈥?/a> is taught in a very sacred manner, and a real way to acheive forgiveness. I also suggest you read Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball.
Simple, I've felt peace with myself because of this Gospel, and I know God has forgiven me.
mormon.org
When you feel that way, start singing songs of praise and worship (in your mind if not an appropriate place and time to sing).
To God Be The Glory is one I sing a lot.
Also, Amazing Grace, How Great Thou Art, Great is Thy Faithfulness
The devil is accusing you. Resist him and he will flee from you.
Take every thought captive.
Also, read 1 John 1:9
Thats because god doesn't exist
you need to be able forgive yourself and not think that something else is going to do it for you
you need to find the strength within yourself to say ';i made a mistake'; and be able to forgive yourself
If Jesus says that you are forgiven, why do you doubt? This is acting against our Lord. Do not go by your feelings, they will always confuse you. Accept in Faith and the rest He will do for you.
Do not be under the yoke of 'guilt'.
';Guilt is never a rational thing; it distorts all the faculties of the human mind, it perverts them, it leaves a man no longer in the free use of his reason, it puts him into confusion.'; Edmund Burke
Jesus has set you free, of all this. Accept this fact, do not go by your feelings. He will take care of the rest. :-)
Are you repeating the same sin or sins over and over? Truly repent and stop your willful sinning , I say willing because I am sure that you know what I am talking about, and God will begin to fellowship with you again. The Holy Spirit is telling you what is greiving Him ,just listen.
Realize that ALL saved believers are still sinners.
And don't allow yourself to be under condemnation. Jesus ALREADY paid for ALL SINS when He died on the cross.
Jesus forgives ALL SINS past, present, and future, when you believe in Jesus alone for salvation. That simple!
Salvation is a FREE GIFT that happens in a split second when you believe in Jesus alone to save you! It is impossible to lose or ';leave'; salvation (John 6:39-40, 1 John 5:13).
The truth about Jesus is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to eternal hell, is by believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died for our sins on the cross as FULL PAYMENT for all our sins, and then Jesus rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe this and you will be in heaven, no matter what!
God forgives all things. God's forgiveness is easy. Forgiving YOURSELF is much harder. Take refuge in the fact that God has already forgotten your sins, and learn to forget them yourself.
Do not worry I feel the same way after I ask for forgiveness. It is hard for you to forget, but soon as you ask for forgiveness God erases all records of the things you have done wrong!
It is very easy to ask for forgiveness... However true repentance has taken place when you commit not to commit that sin again.
Every Christian feels that way sometimes, there is no need to feel guilty. God loves us no matter what we do, that should be your relief. :)
Yeah, drop the religion and you'll drop the unnecessary fear it creates.
That should be incentive enough to ditch the BS religion when you feel bad for no reason.
Sometimes its fun to feel dirty.
Repentance is one of the first principles of the gospel and is essential to our temporal and eternal happiness. It is much more than just acknowledging wrongdoings. It is a change of mind and heart that gives us a fresh view about God, about ourselves, and about the world. It includes turning away from sin and turning to God for forgiveness. It is motivated by love for God and the sincere desire to obey His commandments.
Feel Godly Sorrow
';For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin.'; (Psalms 38:18)
The first step of repentance is to recognize that you've committed a sin against God's commandments.
Feel true sorrow for what you've done and for disobeying Heavenly Father.
Feel sorrow for any pain you may have caused toward other people.
Confess to God
';By this ye may know if a man repenteth of his sins鈥攂ehold, he will confess them and forsake them.'; (D%26amp;C 58:43)
Pray to Heavenly Father and be honest with him.
Tell him of your sin(s).
If necessary confess your sins to your local LDS bishop.
Ask for Forgiveness
';And it came to pass that I did frankly forgive them all that they had done, and I did exhort them that they would pray unto the Lord their God for forgiveness.'; (1 Nephi 7:21)
Pray to God for his forgiveness.
Forgive others who have hurt you.
Forgive yourself and know that God loves you, even though you've sinned.
Rectify Problems Caused by the Sin(s)
';And if it be stolen from him, he shall make restitution unto the owner thereof.'; (Exodus 22:12)
Make restitution by fixing any problems caused by your sin.
Problems caused by sin include physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual damage.
If you can't rectify the problem sincerely ask forgiveness of those wronged and try to find another way to show your change of heart.
Forsake Sin
';He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.'; (Proverbs 28:13)
Make a promise to yourself and to God that you will never repeat the sin.
Recommit yourself to obeying God's commandments.
Continue to repent if you sin again.
Receive Forgiveness
';Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.'; (D%26amp;C 58:42)
The Lord will forgive you when you truly repent with a sincere heart.
Allow his forgiveness to come upon you.
When you feel at peace with yourself you can know you are forgiven.
Don't hold onto your sin and the sorrow you've felt. Let it go by truly forgiving yourself, just as the Lord has forgiven you.
I really hope this has helped you!
its satan trying to worry you.
Jesus paid for you sins
you are free.
You are a child of the MOST HIGH GOD
you have royal blood in your veins.
Your real Dad is the King of kings
dont let the devil steel your joy
May Yeshua ( Jesus ) bless you dear oneChristian advice, please help?
Pray for repentance. What I mean is that just asking for forgiveness although it's the right direction, you need to be diligent about it, and pray for repentance, and a contrite heart. If you are diligent, and continually keep your eyes on Jesus, you will feel forgiven, because God loves a contrite heart. I feel most loved by God, and at peace with God when I deeply regret sins, and the Holy Spirit convicts me of sins. If you just feel bad, and just half heartedly ask for forgiveness you are not truly repenting. I can't make a judgement on that, I'm just basing it on my own experience. I hope this makes sense. There is much more too it.
Jesus is coming soon, so be careful what you read, watch, say, hear, and do. Pay attention to what happens in Isreal and the countries surrounding it, but try not to get caught up in the things of the world, and worldy lusts. If you love your life, you will lose your soul.
Read the Bible with a fresh pair of eyes, and hear what it says with a fresh pair of ears like a child hearing it for the first time. Ask yourself, do I really believe this? I think you will be blessed if you do.
forgive me for saying it but the reason you feel that way is because you don't know how to forgive. it is so important to forgive. you say you believe in christ but if i asked you what he died for , you will quickly say for our sins. if that is the case then you are saying that he died for nothing or you are saying that your sins are too big for him to have saved you from. either way is not true. it is that attack of the devil to make you feel that you are not really saved and washed clean. trust that you are and don't focus on your shortcomings. you are not alone
The devil loves to make Christians feel shame and guilt about their sins. But you need to know this once you ask the Lord to forgive you for holding anything against anyone else, then forgive yourself too. Forgiveness is not an emotion you do not feel sorry. But it is an action. God forgives you and forgets, so if you were to ask Him about it. He would not know what you are talking about.
Just thank the Lord and praise Jesus for paying for your sins. You are free!! :)
I John 1:9, keep repeating it. God cannot lie, so if He says we are forgiven, we are. The problem is us believing this without ';doing'; something. We feel like we have fix something or whatever to really be forgiven, if at all.
The truth is, confess to God whatever is holding you back and take it by faith that He has forgiven you, so now you must forgive yourself.
Condemnation comes from the enemy, conviction is what the Holy Spirit does to call us to repentance.
So, if you still feel condemed for sin, its not from God, Satan is trying to keep you bound to that thing. Once you confess (convictions role) and turn away from that thing, you should ';feel'; free. I say feel this way because your and my freedom and cleansing etc. is not based on our feelings, its based on what Christ did for us.
Let that load be lifted and be free again! Read I Peter 5:7 (one of my favorite scriptures).
There are the ABC's to repentence that has been discovered.
Abandon
Be sorry
Confess
Don't do it again
Now I don't know what branch of Christianity you fall into, but mine is the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The atonement (http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?index=鈥?/a> is taught in a very sacred manner, and a real way to acheive forgiveness. I also suggest you read Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball.
Simple, I've felt peace with myself because of this Gospel, and I know God has forgiven me.
mormon.org
When you feel that way, start singing songs of praise and worship (in your mind if not an appropriate place and time to sing).
To God Be The Glory is one I sing a lot.
Also, Amazing Grace, How Great Thou Art, Great is Thy Faithfulness
The devil is accusing you. Resist him and he will flee from you.
Take every thought captive.
Also, read 1 John 1:9
Thats because god doesn't exist
you need to be able forgive yourself and not think that something else is going to do it for you
you need to find the strength within yourself to say ';i made a mistake'; and be able to forgive yourself
If Jesus says that you are forgiven, why do you doubt? This is acting against our Lord. Do not go by your feelings, they will always confuse you. Accept in Faith and the rest He will do for you.
Do not be under the yoke of 'guilt'.
';Guilt is never a rational thing; it distorts all the faculties of the human mind, it perverts them, it leaves a man no longer in the free use of his reason, it puts him into confusion.'; Edmund Burke
Jesus has set you free, of all this. Accept this fact, do not go by your feelings. He will take care of the rest. :-)
Are you repeating the same sin or sins over and over? Truly repent and stop your willful sinning , I say willing because I am sure that you know what I am talking about, and God will begin to fellowship with you again. The Holy Spirit is telling you what is greiving Him ,just listen.
Realize that ALL saved believers are still sinners.
And don't allow yourself to be under condemnation. Jesus ALREADY paid for ALL SINS when He died on the cross.
Jesus forgives ALL SINS past, present, and future, when you believe in Jesus alone for salvation. That simple!
Salvation is a FREE GIFT that happens in a split second when you believe in Jesus alone to save you! It is impossible to lose or ';leave'; salvation (John 6:39-40, 1 John 5:13).
The truth about Jesus is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to eternal hell, is by believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died for our sins on the cross as FULL PAYMENT for all our sins, and then Jesus rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe this and you will be in heaven, no matter what!
God forgives all things. God's forgiveness is easy. Forgiving YOURSELF is much harder. Take refuge in the fact that God has already forgotten your sins, and learn to forget them yourself.
Do not worry I feel the same way after I ask for forgiveness. It is hard for you to forget, but soon as you ask for forgiveness God erases all records of the things you have done wrong!
It is very easy to ask for forgiveness... However true repentance has taken place when you commit not to commit that sin again.
Every Christian feels that way sometimes, there is no need to feel guilty. God loves us no matter what we do, that should be your relief. :)
Yeah, drop the religion and you'll drop the unnecessary fear it creates.
That should be incentive enough to ditch the BS religion when you feel bad for no reason.
Sometimes its fun to feel dirty.
Repentance is one of the first principles of the gospel and is essential to our temporal and eternal happiness. It is much more than just acknowledging wrongdoings. It is a change of mind and heart that gives us a fresh view about God, about ourselves, and about the world. It includes turning away from sin and turning to God for forgiveness. It is motivated by love for God and the sincere desire to obey His commandments.
Feel Godly Sorrow
';For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin.'; (Psalms 38:18)
The first step of repentance is to recognize that you've committed a sin against God's commandments.
Feel true sorrow for what you've done and for disobeying Heavenly Father.
Feel sorrow for any pain you may have caused toward other people.
Confess to God
';By this ye may know if a man repenteth of his sins鈥攂ehold, he will confess them and forsake them.'; (D%26amp;C 58:43)
Pray to Heavenly Father and be honest with him.
Tell him of your sin(s).
If necessary confess your sins to your local LDS bishop.
Ask for Forgiveness
';And it came to pass that I did frankly forgive them all that they had done, and I did exhort them that they would pray unto the Lord their God for forgiveness.'; (1 Nephi 7:21)
Pray to God for his forgiveness.
Forgive others who have hurt you.
Forgive yourself and know that God loves you, even though you've sinned.
Rectify Problems Caused by the Sin(s)
';And if it be stolen from him, he shall make restitution unto the owner thereof.'; (Exodus 22:12)
Make restitution by fixing any problems caused by your sin.
Problems caused by sin include physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual damage.
If you can't rectify the problem sincerely ask forgiveness of those wronged and try to find another way to show your change of heart.
Forsake Sin
';He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.'; (Proverbs 28:13)
Make a promise to yourself and to God that you will never repeat the sin.
Recommit yourself to obeying God's commandments.
Continue to repent if you sin again.
Receive Forgiveness
';Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.'; (D%26amp;C 58:42)
The Lord will forgive you when you truly repent with a sincere heart.
Allow his forgiveness to come upon you.
When you feel at peace with yourself you can know you are forgiven.
Don't hold onto your sin and the sorrow you've felt. Let it go by truly forgiving yourself, just as the Lord has forgiven you.
I really hope this has helped you!
Makeup Advice plz help?
Hi all I have dark brown deep set of eyes dark brown hair and tan skin. If I want my skin too look darker what colour of lipstick or lipgloss should I apply. Plz help me.Makeup Advice plz help?
If you want to look darker then try a red lipstick and some bronze eyeshadow.no makeup
If you want to look darker then try a red lipstick and some bronze eyeshadow.
Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
A friend of mine has the flu and as a result he is not eating.
He hasn't eaten properly in about 5 days because he says it makes him ill. Despite this he is going to the toilet regularly and he's lost just over a stone in those 5 days.
What can I do?
When will he get better?
Somebody please help.....
ThanksHelp! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
i had horrid flu last Christmas and i didnt want to eat anything for well over a week. appetite just went. i found plenty of fluids helped, fruit teas, lucozade, water but also ice lollies really helped too with the sore throat. Soup was good too.
if it doesnt clear up then maybe get to a doctor but im reluctant these days coz they wont prescribe anything and you usually end up coming out with other bugs too!Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
You don't say if he's keeping his fluids up, he can go with a little food for quite a while but he must keep his fluids up. If he's not and you're getting worried, speak to his doc - he may need to go to hospital and be put on a drip if he dehydrates too much.
He should go to the doctor. There are lots of horrible bugs going around at the moment and it's impossible to say when it will go away. His body should fight it off on it's own eventually but he may need antibiotics or something.
Your friend needs to see a doctor. He could be dehydrated which is very dangerous. I hope he will feel better soon.
He hasn't eaten properly in about 5 days because he says it makes him ill. Despite this he is going to the toilet regularly and he's lost just over a stone in those 5 days.
What can I do?
When will he get better?
Somebody please help.....
ThanksHelp! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
i had horrid flu last Christmas and i didnt want to eat anything for well over a week. appetite just went. i found plenty of fluids helped, fruit teas, lucozade, water but also ice lollies really helped too with the sore throat. Soup was good too.
if it doesnt clear up then maybe get to a doctor but im reluctant these days coz they wont prescribe anything and you usually end up coming out with other bugs too!Help! Need advice on Flu. When will it be over?
You don't say if he's keeping his fluids up, he can go with a little food for quite a while but he must keep his fluids up. If he's not and you're getting worried, speak to his doc - he may need to go to hospital and be put on a drip if he dehydrates too much.
He should go to the doctor. There are lots of horrible bugs going around at the moment and it's impossible to say when it will go away. His body should fight it off on it's own eventually but he may need antibiotics or something.
Your friend needs to see a doctor. He could be dehydrated which is very dangerous. I hope he will feel better soon.
Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
Hi, I invested Rs 100000 in a close ended mutual fund last year. But now, I am in the middle of a financial crisis. I have defaulted a couple of my loans. I badly need this money. Is there any way, I can pay back the tax for the amount and retrieve the amount now, instead of waiting for 3 years???
BR
KarthickHi All! I need your help/advice.....?
ya u can the amt get by surrendering the policy. bt u wont get the full amt u invested. Better call 2 the insurance company where u invested or ur financial consultant for more details.Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
First, if you have NSC, pledge it to bank, you will get 75% loan at 11-11.5%int.
Second, Pledge gold with the bank, it will be better than surrendering the mutual funds.
BR
KarthickHi All! I need your help/advice.....?
ya u can the amt get by surrendering the policy. bt u wont get the full amt u invested. Better call 2 the insurance company where u invested or ur financial consultant for more details.Hi All! I need your help/advice.....?
First, if you have NSC, pledge it to bank, you will get 75% loan at 11-11.5%int.
Second, Pledge gold with the bank, it will be better than surrendering the mutual funds.
Makeup advice... please help with new colours. ?
OK, I have black hair, very dark brown eyes, white skin with a pinkish/yellow undertone. I tan fairly easily. Atm I wear pink blush, gold eyeshadow, black mascara, clear lipgloss. I have been thinking about changing my colours ... what do you think I should do? If you know anything about makeup I'd like your advice ...Makeup advice... please help with new colours. ?
make up works with opposites so with you look you try several different looks,
try dark blue and purple to contrast with you eyes and skin, also a darker green will bring out your eyes,
beware not to go too pink with your blusher with this look or you will look a little ott,
the darker you go on your eyes the paler your lips should be
incontrast because of your dark hair and pale complection you could try a ver old school glamour look with red lips and a line of liquid liner alonge the top of your eyes, and mascara, this look takes some guts tho,
hope this helps
Makeup advice... please help with new colours. ?
i personally prefer natural colours as it looks a lot more classier and professional, you clearly suit cold tones with having black hair and pink/yellow undertones so i would suggest ditching the gold as this is a warm colour and choosing a cold coloured eyeshadow, pink, blue, white/silver etc...
well, i would go with a foundation closest to your skin, then maybe add bronzer, and then sea blue, or dark lime green eyeshadow, black mascara, black eyes, and a natural pink lip gloss color.
if you apply blue/green non your top, and bottom lids, it will make your eyes pop, and more awaken, :)
i like the look of bright pink of blue under the eyes like as if it were eye liner. it looks hot! try...
for beauty and fashion tips visit this link below
make up works with opposites so with you look you try several different looks,
try dark blue and purple to contrast with you eyes and skin, also a darker green will bring out your eyes,
beware not to go too pink with your blusher with this look or you will look a little ott,
the darker you go on your eyes the paler your lips should be
incontrast because of your dark hair and pale complection you could try a ver old school glamour look with red lips and a line of liquid liner alonge the top of your eyes, and mascara, this look takes some guts tho,
hope this helps
Makeup advice... please help with new colours. ?
i personally prefer natural colours as it looks a lot more classier and professional, you clearly suit cold tones with having black hair and pink/yellow undertones so i would suggest ditching the gold as this is a warm colour and choosing a cold coloured eyeshadow, pink, blue, white/silver etc...
well, i would go with a foundation closest to your skin, then maybe add bronzer, and then sea blue, or dark lime green eyeshadow, black mascara, black eyes, and a natural pink lip gloss color.
if you apply blue/green non your top, and bottom lids, it will make your eyes pop, and more awaken, :)
i like the look of bright pink of blue under the eyes like as if it were eye liner. it looks hot! try...
for beauty and fashion tips visit this link below
Websites/Advice to help improve German?
Find a German friend to help you learn. The best way to learn a language is by learning it from someone who speaks it fluently (I know, how do you think I speak 6 languages fluently?).Websites/Advice to help improve German?
Below is a website with a good amount of explanations etc.
Read books in German, watch DVD's in German, find people which will talk to you in German (natives)Websites/Advice to help improve German?
I'm studying for my GCSE German and i use BBC and
www.languagesonline.org.uk
Languages online looks really silly but it helps me.
Good luck x
http://www.linguaguide.com/recipe/Lingua鈥?/a>
This one really helped me.
Below is a website with a good amount of explanations etc.
Read books in German, watch DVD's in German, find people which will talk to you in German (natives)Websites/Advice to help improve German?
I'm studying for my GCSE German and i use BBC and
www.languagesonline.org.uk
Languages online looks really silly but it helps me.
Good luck x
http://www.linguaguide.com/recipe/Lingua鈥?/a>
This one really helped me.
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