Kissing Advice? (please help!)?

im getting my first kiss soon. I want to be ready so what should i expect. Any tips to be a good kisser? Or is it natural? ThanksKissing Advice? (please help!)?
1. Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.


2. Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.


3. Be forward about your feelings and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling so desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out!


4. Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!


5. Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.


6. Start slow. If he's too shy to make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.


7. Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation - no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.


8. Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips, he will get the signal you want more!


9. If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!


10. When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.


11. Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.


12. Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.


13. If he doesn't like you then he doesn't, try and get over it. Depending on the guy sometimes showing compassion will get him back.


14. If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies thats him asking for it.


15. If you make him feel comfortable he will make the first move!


16. Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.


17. If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.


18. DON'T think too much! Just think about him... a.k.a. how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him. See the things such as is he caring, funny, fun to hang with.


19. Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy!


20. Don't be too hesitant, if you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away! it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!


21. Also remember that many boys are shy. If there is something between you two, and you still haven't kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.Kissing Advice? (please help!)?
*Wait for the right moment.*


There鈥檚 usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you鈥檙e doing and silently look into the person鈥檚 eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.





*Approach for the kiss.*


Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).





*Kiss gently.*


There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There鈥檚 a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don鈥檛 press your mouth onto your partner鈥檚--just let your lips meet--and don鈥檛 try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner鈥檚. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn鈥檛 pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.





*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*


Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don鈥檛 move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like ';What is he/she thinking about?';, ';Do I look good tonight?';, or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.
The first kiss is always a flub. Haha. Sorry I know thats not the advice that you wanted... but its the truth. But they get better. Soon you will find yourself wanting them all the time. You will even try to sneak a couple in while sitting at red lights. :)








Good Luck, Dont be Nervous,


Stormy
Don't listen to the guy that said to have your clothes off.





Check out my question, it's like the same as yours. I got wonderful answeres that you should see.





Here's one answer from somone:





';-make sure your breath is good.


-lips are soft.


-and really it's not all about tounge. don't use to much.


-use your lips!!!!! (this is very important)


-and relax!';





Good luck!
i think its more natural. and first kisses are kinda supposed to be messed up; it's expected. just don't do anything stupid. im sure you've seen enough movies and tv to understand what right and wrong kissing is. it will just come to you, don't worry. and if you do mess up a little dont get embarest, just giggle and restart





hope i helped :)
Wow, you know your getting your first kiss in advance? Lol. i remember mine, he leaned in to kiss me and i backed away lol, and i said ';sorry, lets try that again'; lol. So first thing, dont back away. you shouldnt use tongue, cuz well its not a nice first kiss. Closed mouth. peck. then go to an open mouth one
popkiss the first time. keep your lips relax and dont rush so much that ull bump heads. give him ';the look'; and hold him liek a hug even tho u prob wont remember what you did with your hands. teh guy will turn or bend down and all that stufff. you jsut relax and aim.
i think everyone kisses different. everyone ive kissed hasnt really kissed the same. just let it be natural. and if your feeling nervous let them lead [ya i know that sounds strange] but just follow them and dont think to hard.
its weird


i asked the same question 2 weeks ago


tap kiss + no skill


makeout


do's= tap, makeout,tap makout back and forth, hold hands, back head...


donts= open mouth hole time no touching head still
umm your boyfriend should work it out don't worry.


and if your worried give him a small kiss it doesn't allways have to be a big one.
I haven't had my first kiss yet either. I guess we're kind of on the same page. xD





I think it really just comes naturally, there isn't really a such thing as advice I don't think...





Tess xx





Good luck! =]
practice on cherry steams if ur not confident





Tie the cherry stem with ur tongue...


THERE YA GO
make sure you have your clothes off.
make sure you have your clothes on first... and being nervous is normal, just dont make it akward!