Thursday, July 29, 2010

Please help!advice please!?

my friend is pregnant. this is her second child. she needs to know how to tell her parents about this because they were upset about the first pregnancy. how can she tell them she is pregnant without them going off. also, she wants to have an adoption.Please help!advice please!?
I`m assuming she is still in her teen years, this friend of yours..





now, what did she do the first time she got pregnant? Maybe she can do that again.





As for her parents, there are no ways to go around it, ofcourse they will be upset if she`s still young.





Why wasn`t she more careful this time?





I know someone like your friend though, but she told her parents anyways and she's fine.





take responsibility, do what you gotta do.Please help!advice please!?
No, abortion. She's dumb enough to have a second 1 do the same thing she did when she told her parents.
Has your friend not figured out what causes pregnancy yet?





If she was irresponsible enough to get pregnant a second time, she needs to just deal with the consequences and tell her folks. They are not going to be any happier about this one than they were the other one and there is no way to get around it. Why prolong the inevitable? Just tell them and get it over with.





In the future, perhaps she could think about this before she gets pregnant. There are ways to avoid getting pregnant.
let them go off, it is OK. But she will have their help in the end. It is always better to do the right think first. Because she might end up doing something more stupid later.
She wants to have an adoption or an abortion?


Either way, her parents will know something is wrong. She should just be honest. Tell her to just go ahead and spill the beans and then tell her where the local clinic is so that she can get some form of birth control.
Be honest and upfront about it and her plans about an adoption. Sure her parents are going to be a bit ticked that she made the same mistake twice, but in the end her parents will probably be supportive even though they might no be happy about the situation.
this friend of yours is still a teen. NO ABORTION. that is not an option. it's bad enough she didn't learn her lesson after the first baby. it's not the babys' fault so thus it shouldn't be punished. tell her just to tell her parents and tell her there are plenty of loving families who would love that little baby who can't have children of their own. an adoption is fine. the little bundle of joy will be sooo loved by another family. just don't kill it and it'll all be fine. tell her my prayers are with her.


~just trying to help~

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