Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?

I need a total confiendnce boost how ?








this week im meeting this guy i really like him but im rather shy .. i dont know what to say or do ....what should i wear ? what should i talk to him about .... i dont want him to think im retarded ...im totally freakin out ......Any advice??Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Well first off... you need to pick out an outfit that you feel comfortable in and very cute!! If you wear something that is not at ll comfortable then you will think about that the whole time instead of him. You need to find out where you are going before so you know what to wear...


Just be your self... Small talk is the best thing to talk about... like the diner... how you guys met.... and just tell him your likes and dislikes....That is a fun topic! Then you can figure out if you are compatible with him! and if you are nervious.... just think about how he feels he is going to be nervious too!! SO talk about that too!! that will get you off to a good start!!


Being shy will go away in time... I was very shy but now I don't stop talking....Anyone please help ? Advice needed!?
Girlfriend best advice JUST BE YOURSELF!!! I was chating to this guy on a dating site and we fell inlove. He calls me every day and we had alot in mind. Than he suggested that we meet and I totally freaked out. Oh what am I going to wear,willl he like what he sees and what are we going to talk about you know such things. But let me tell you something we finally met and I didn't go to the extreme to look presentable. I just wore jeans and a T-shirt lol. We sat at my house and I offered him something to drink and because we had alot in mind we talked asif we knewed each other before. I have a pool table at home and I suggested we play a game seeing that he also loves pool. Don't freak out hun best thing you can do is relax, be yourself and don't expect too much. Set your mind at ease and tell yourself that everything is going to work out just well. Be self confident and hey don't judge and think that he's going to think that you a retard. Be cool please but please Don't Freeze.
listen my dear just be your self, this might sound weird and odd, but go to your mirror and just tell your self your awesome, do that a few times before the date it might help. just were something nice, if your going to a place that's not dressy were jeans a a t-shirt, no need to stress over it. if you really don't know him ask him about his family, were he sees himself in 5 years, let him talk to you as well, let him ask you some questions. if this helps awesome if you have any questions feel free to ask....and good luck
well firstly just chill out as that will only make you even more nervous, have a glass of wine of a beer before you go but only to relax you, dont get drunk as this will make you look like a twat! just be yourself, ask hinm about his job and try and find ways you can relate to it and stories you can tell! also ask him about his hobbies and intrestes! once the cono has started it should flow! good luck xxx
This may sound slightly strange but it does work. if he had myspace or facebook or any of those social networking things go on it and see if hes put the type of music hes into , hobbies , tv , etc etc so you have a list of topics alrady in your head to talk about.


if he doesnt speak to friends who might know him or just take not of things e.g what car he drives


flatter him , no too much , but a little flattery goes a long way with guys.


ask him about himself , men will talk about themselves all day if they can!


its so easy to say something incredibly stupid toa guy you really like so make sure you really quickly think everything your going to say before you say it.


this depends where you are going but dont get overly dressed up %26amp; Definitley dont dress really obviously slutty.


good hair %26amp; make up is usually a real confidence booster , but again dont goover the top. eg. dont leave the house looking like a drag queen.


hope this helps you , you should be fine
Just try and be yourself, wear a big smile and everything will fall into place. Even when we're not confident facing the world with a smile and not being afraid to stand up straight and walk with pride will show others that we CAN and ARE willing to do our own thing. I'm sure that you'll wear something special and I hope that it all goes well for you.





Thank you, and good luck :)
Honeybee, if you really like this guy just be yourself, wear something attractive, not too sexy and not too goddy goddy, just wear something that will get his attention but will still pay attention to what you're saying. Be confident in yourself and everything will be fine, don't freak out, oh yeah and don't bring up any of your ex-bfs. Good Luck!!!
this is exactly whatr happened to me yesterday! what i did was tried to ignore how fit and lovely he was and just talked to him and acted towards him as i would my friends, and luckily i was with my friends so i just included him in our convosations. Once you feel more confident around him, you can start to sus out whther he likes you :)


hope this helped xxx
I had that prob with my bf because i met him online and meeting him in real life was very nerve racking.... try to be yourself, dress however you feel comfortable and waht u think u look good in cus if you feel like you look good that will boost your confidence! tell him your nervous i'm sure he will be too and it wont be long before your feeling comfortable together trust me!!
Well dont freak out i know its hard but with these things you just have to go with the flow because there is no right or wrong way of doing these things you just have to let it come to you naturally.. Where something that you would normally wear out with your mates something colourfull or sparkley
well for starters dont wear anything realy flashy in color..and dont wear anything sleazy or too revealing unless ur easy and want him to know that....just relax....and be urself...unless of course the real you does act retarded....lol....in that case i dont know what to tell ya....no...im kiddin...be urself...ask him questions u want to know about him...then ur talkin but yet ur lettin him do most the talkin...and just let the conversation take it from there....just be calm and try not to be panicky...BE URSELF!..hope ya have fun
Yeah I agree with the beer, it will surprise you how much more relaxed you can feel after having just one beer without impairing your judgement.





But besides that, I'm sure he's JUST as nervous as you. Chill out and let things go with the flow I'm sure you'll have a great time.
Just be yourself! If you come off as fake, wouldn't that be worse than what he thinks of the real you?





Wear your normal clothes. Just dress in an impressionable matter. Nice blue jeans, and a nice shirt. Don't dress like a skank and you'll be rewarded with a nice, caring guy.





Don't forget, if he's not all that you thought he was, it's ok.
1st what would you wear on the 4th,5th,date with him?Dress like that ,don't over due it.,just be you. 2nd,its okay to be nervous,he'll probably be nervous too.Then pretend its a old friend you haven't seen since 1st grade;take it slow.Everything will be fine.Good Luck!
all you have to do is be yourself wear some thing nice but not to revealing and once you guys meet up convo will stir up but just relax just be yourself cause at the end of the day thats all you can be go0d luck
Don't go. Tell him that you would but your to shy. (Clever 'eh?)
Be yourself you will be fine. Good luck