Relationsip advice need help asap ?

My husband, the man who I love very much has lied to me a billon times about name age and girls he met and been out with :(. he lied about these things in the beginning of the relationship.. i need help i cant stand the lieing i know they love me but i need help cause it really hurts. what can we do to fix this?Relationsip advice need help asap ?
There is little you can do to fix this problem, Men have lied for no reason for years. What you need to do is Pray for him if you really Love him. Some men just have an addiction to sex and women. The only way he can do better is if he wants to and he really loves you and wants to make his marriage work. He need a wake call, and needs to stop and look at what he has right in front of him before its gone. If he lied to you in the beginning then he should be through that stage. Now what you need to do is give him over into the hands of the good Lord and ask God to lead you in the right direction as to what you need to do for your marriage.


I hate to here you are going through but God will watch over you and take care of you just hang in there and be faithful.Relationsip advice need help asap ?
Are you talking about the girls he has been with before you met him or after? You are worrying yourself about nothing if you are talking about what he did before you met him? What he did in past shouldn't matter. You the one that's married to him. This doesn't make sense. Move on and enjoy your life with you husband. You do not want to mess it up with what happened in the past. By the way, how would you know if he's lying about the age and names? Who wants to remember the names and ages of their old girl friends when he's trying to have a life with a wife. Girl, think about it.









I would seek counseling for the two of you. You have issues that you aren't able to resolve and if you two love each other enough to fix things then it's the right thing to do.





The most important thing to gain from the counseling is your ability to trust him again once you have forgiven him for all the lying. If you believe that he has changed then it will work out and the two of you can put the past behind you and move forward.
you cannot fix something that is not meant to be fixed if he is a liar then that is what he is. You really only have two choices one stay where you are and no that nothing will ever change, or walk away and become the person that you once were with the same expectations in life and from a man and be happy because life is so short that to waste one minute on someone who cannot love you enough to be honest is no longer worth your time or effort.
I am confused. I don't understand why you need to know specifics about his EX girlfriends. It makes you sound jealous or obsessive. That stuff just doesn't matter.





If you mean to say that he lies about other things,too, then I sympathize with you. You should see a therapist - either for yourself or for you both as a couple.
He can't be fixable, but on the other hand, you can be fixable. If this are petty lies, then maybe you can live with that, but if things grow larger, then you won't handle it, and would rather choose to go your own way.
Someone that lies regularly is a LIAR.Either accept that or leave the relationship.Those are your choices.
Why does his past matter so much? Worry about the present and look forward to your future.
Sorry, it won't be fixable.