I've been trying to have sex for a while but my boy friend hasn't been able to get it in. We've been dating for 13 months as of today. It just hurts to much. Any advise on how to make it hurt less and easier so i can actually enjoy it. I'm seeing him tomarrow (we're sort of long distance) and i'm ready to have him... if only it would hurt less. plz helpGirls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
Try some foreplay in order to open you a little. Another thing you can do is use a dildo on your own. Once the dildo can go in and out then he should be able to. You could also try lubrication.
Well good luck. Girls only...HELP advice PLZ !!!!
If it hurts b/c you are dry, try a lubricant. If it hurts b/c he is too big, just tell him to ';stick it in'; and it will feel better when you get going. If you are a virgin, it will hurt no matter what at first. If you are not, and he isn't too big and you aren't too dry- you may need to go to the doctor.
He should go VERY slow, but no matter what there is no way to get rid of the pain completely, just tell him to go slow, although after the first couple times it gets a lot better, trust me, its just that first time that is uncomfortable and painful
If it hurts it's probably because you tense up. If you tense up it's probably because you're nervous and not ready. But if you go through with it anyway just use some form of lubrication it'll help him go in smoother. Btw use a condom.
Try using a lube, maybe its just too dry in there! Practice in your off time using a super tampon, my friend told me if you use a super that sex won't hurt as much because your already sort of used to it. lol what do I know, I'm still a virgin!! Goodluck girl
you really need to relax and have alot of foreplay get to know him and and make sure he excites you and viseversa. You need to be comfortable with him and dont force it too much--it should just happen.
Lube is all you can do. It will get better with time.
nothing you can do about that unless you gt someone who is smaller
Some oil for lube and a lot more foreplay to relax you.
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