I need your help/advice?

There's this[really shy] guy......in the begginning of the year I found out from one of my friends that he had a crush on me. I'd never really noticed him before [he goes to my church] and would've never really taken a double glance at him, had it not been for the fact he had a crush on me. Ok so a couple of months go by and I'm still pretty confused about my feelings for him. I guess I really did like him in the beggining, and he sort of grew on me. I'm not allowed to date till I'm 16, but he told me he'd wait for me. The point is, I've been telling everyone that I like him and he really likes me and he thinks I like him the same way, but the thing is, I just don't know how I feel about him. I'm so confused. He's got such a sweet personality...did I mention he's really shy? And he's so....inexperienced in bf/gf relationships [as am I] (meaning I'd be his first gf vice versa ect.) I know you can't really get into my head and say 'oh you like him' and all but from my POV wat would u do?I need your help/advice?
Even if you don't ';like'; him, you seem interested in him. Get to know him. No rush, but no reason not to know each other better. You say you're not sure how you feel about him. Maybe because you like the idea of someone liking you more than you like him.I need your help/advice?
What you are experiencing is very normal. You haven't had a chance to really get to know him yet. It sounds like he is a very nice guy, but you don't need to make any decisions about ANYONE right now. You can date him one you are 16, and you can date other guys, too. That's what you should do. Just because you like him doesn't mean you can't like other guys, too. That's what dating is about at 16, learning the type of guy/man that you like and the characteristics you want when you get married. Try not to worry about your feelings for him too much. Just enjoy this time in your life and remember that it's not like you have to marry him or anything.
Your probilily just interested in him, spend more time with yall may become the best of friends.
I think you should get to know him he seems like he would be willing to open up to you and if he likes you then that is great for you.
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Try not to build it up to much. things will work out alright if you stop worrying about them. 10 years from now you'll laugh at this situation.