Need help! Advice! Something!!?

Okay, I'm bi, but my mother, believes it's the biggest sin anyone could ever commit! What do I do? How can I tell my parents? I don't think my dad would freak out as much but he'd still be all weird. I would be the first person in my entire family that isn't straight. I'm freaking out and thinking about just letting them catch me. Or maybe just staying in the closet with them and letting others know. My best friend knows and my boyfriend. That's about it, What do I do???Need help! Advice! Something!!?
I say tell them and the rest of your family and friends whenever you feel ready AND since you are seeking answers- I think that you are. You just have to say...';hey mom this is who I am.'; She may understand or she may freak out, I'm not going to lie to you. What you have to remember is she is your mother and she will love you no matter what, even if she has a verbal sh*t fit. Coming out to your parents is no easy task but in the end I think you will feel better when you do, no matter the outcome. Hiding who you are is never the solution and when you can be yourself around the ones you love it takes a lot of weight off your shoulders. Being honest with them will probably gain you a lot more respect rather than letting them catch you in the act. Just let them know it does not change who you are, that you are still the same person and stay calm and mature. That's all you can do. Be strong and good luck.Need help! Advice! Something!!?
well if your not in a relationship with a female right now than why do you feel the need to tell them?


I don't think I'd ruffle any Feathers if I didn't have to.


plus you look pretty young and if they don't know your bi you can still have females spend the night with you and your parents would never know what you guys might be doing behind closed doors..lol
Sin?


Tell them you're not confined by the trappings of religion and wish to live your life how you see fit - you only get one life, so make the most of it.


Live it your way, by your rules, and not for a character in a book written by the hands of man so many years ago.
start off telling your parents sloly. your their daughter. they can't possibly leave you out of their life,and if they do, that isn't right. i think you should so SOME signs first because if you just release it all in one big POW, they'll take it very hardly. good luck
Grow up first,


After you move out it is your life.





Ask the PFLAG group for advice





good luck
my mom hasn't come to terms with my orientation yet as well, but you know, now she is getting used to it. slowly. she seemed to have a problem differentiating between her expectations for me, and the reality of who i was as a lesbian. she wanted the best for me, and were afraid that in being an open and out lesbian, my life would be harder. she didn't want that for me.


also, most parents hope that it is only a phase, but don't worry, soon they will realize that it is just the way things are.





i'd say take your time with your mother! do not flaunt yourself around her.





nice and easy. eventually, she will be more comfortable with your sexuality. the harder you try to force her to accept you, the longer it will take.





it's a hard and slow process for this kind of mothers but in the long run you are the only one who will decide on your life.


hopefully she will surrender in the end.





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